After being together for so long he realizes he needs to start fresh. Fine and dandy but he wants to come around when he feels like it and gets upset when you're not feeling him.Why play with people's emotions like that?
2006-10-06 14:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Fran J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've always wondered the same thing. Men are weird.
I guess when they don't have you, they realize what they're missing.
2006-10-06 14:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a two part question, Why is it that men seem to want a woman more when the woman acts like she could give a damn about him.?
Well it’s true the world over Things increase in value as the number of those item decrees and as they become harder to acquire. You know like maybe theirs only these two pennies left in the world. some year or other they become very valuable. The same with you giving your love.
The other part: He knows you care for him and he uses it on you like a weapon to satisfy his sexual needs. I know it’s hard for you to say no to him. Your best defense and course of action should be to meet someone else maybe try some different men like dates and go to places where you might meet a nice man one who cares about your feeling, someone who wants you to be happy. Like church, school, library, some kind of group meetings where you have a chance of meeting someone good. It’s what you deserve.
2006-10-06 15:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Roy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you give him that kind of feeling to make him think that you want him to keep on cuming back to you .women sometimes get tried of a men they have been with for a while.in order not to fell that way have a lil along time from each other an see what happens.men always sems that way i don't know y.
2006-10-06 14:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by jamie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called using people. there are users in the world. avoid them. they like to have a back-up plan, and that's what you are to him. he wants to play, but have you waiting around for him when he can't get anymore action. move on. you deserve better.
2006-10-06 14:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grass is greener theory. He thought he needed something else until he relized what he had. He wants it back. So, now your disinterest is making him try to "conquest" you just like he did when you first started dating.
2006-10-06 14:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats only because very physically attractive women can act indifferent, and we still want them. The same is true for women, you know that.
2006-10-06 14:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called no one knows what they have untill they lose it. he realized that he ahd a good setup and blew it so now he wants to make everything right again. too late if it were me
2006-10-06 14:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by rak15tango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋