I've really fancied this guy for a while and he says that he's very interested in me. The whole thing's long distance and we haven't slept together yet or anything, but he says that he can picture himself being committed to me long term and that he's "falling madly in love with me." Well, after 3 months of this I find out that he's still married but separated and waiting on a divorce (so he says). But since it's long distance (as in another country) I have no way of really knowing. We were supposed to be arranging a visit in a month or two. I really care about him but I'm afraid that I'll just get hurt if I get tangled up in all of this. What do I do?
2006-10-06 14:33:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No kids involved.
2006-10-06 14:48:14 · update #1
if he didnt tell you that hes married, you gotta think... what else is he hiding?
2006-10-06 16:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by liza p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE U CRAZY!!!! U really don't know any thing or nothing just what he's telling u .U don't even if he is really in an other country he could be right here sending from any ip address get out b 4 u get into some thing u can't get out of and don't go out of the country to meat w/ him at all and if u do it any way give some one all the info to where u are u are going down to the last detail i personally don't think this i a WISE THING TO DO!
2006-10-07 00:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What still married, did he not tell you, he should have told you right from the beginning, that is not fair, i would be questioning, his commitment to our relationship, and asking him a few questions as well, and of course the first one would be why did he not tell you? hope all works out well good luck...........
2006-10-06 23:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop Him like a Hot Potato
2006-10-06 21:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would meet with him, I think he' s telling the truth, but, I would DEFINITlY have a close friend, or sister or someone go with you to meet him. Make sure you have a way to defend yourself, something he won't notice, just in case. =) Other than that, I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-06 21:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my dear,run the other way sorry guys like this bad news they all say they are waiting for a divorce but half the time sweetheart they are happily married and want there cake and eat it sorry just be careful good luck hope it does work out.......................
2006-10-07 06:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a good dating site and flirt like mad .... have fun
if after a month he still rings your bell meet up
2006-10-07 01:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by jasmrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you leave the planet you're on at present and travel back to Earth.
2006-10-06 23:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dover Soles 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's full of it. If he was honest, he would have told you up front about his marriage. Don't do it.
2006-10-06 21:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by fury_bassman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about him get somone that lives in your area
2006-10-06 21:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋