I´ve benn seeing this guy for about three weeks and I really like him. He is really nice to me he makes me laugh and he told a friend we have in common that he really likes me but that he wants to take things slow. He calls me almost every day but when he have seen each other it has been because we run to each other , he almost never asks me out. And the real problem is that whenever we talk he starts talking about how he´s never going to settle down, how he´s runs from marriage and he tries to be like "cool" , itá almost like he´s trying to impress me by coming of as relaxed and cool. My friends say I should wait a little bit more and give things more time but I´m confused and I don´t know what to do I don´t want him to play with me or to use me just for the moment. What do u think I should do?
2006-10-06 14:39:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just wants to make sure you know what might happen before he asks you out more. If he has a job that won't let him settle down, he wants to make sure you know the consequences. He's just protecting you. After a while, he'll be better. Maybe he wants to be with someone a long time before he get married. Bad experiances with marrage maybe. But make sure he's got a good back ground--not illegal. Because arround ever corrner hides danger, and danger hides behind ever corrner.
2006-10-06 14:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to settle down and you are not going to change his mind if your looking for a future husband he will only waste your time.
2006-10-06 14:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a challenge to him.
2006-10-06 14:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋