Are the any side-effects or long run health defect that could be caused if one cried too much , like everyday? I am 25 and i've got a bf who is 41, he makes me cry almost everyday and night by making me feel so low and bringin down my self esteem.when i cry, he stops and he continues to torture me the next day.Is crying everyday harmful for the body and the eyes?Sometimes, I usd to cry the whole night till morning.
2006-10-06 14:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Umm, maybe you shouldn't date a guy who steps on your back to make himself feel better. Do you like being used as a doormat? Doesn't sound like it because you cry so much...
About your question: It probably depends on the reason. If you cry because you are depressed, then the depression is bad for you. Crying because your happy - good!! Crying does make your eyes red and puffy and saggy and bloodshot....
It sounds like your hurting...my heart goes out to you.
2006-10-06 14:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, do me a favor and just read to yourself what you wrote. Now take a moment to think of all the things that would make an unhealthy relationship. Compare notes. I'm sure you'll find a lot of the things you wrote down on that list will match what you wrote here. Get out now.
2006-10-06 14:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is not harmful to the body or else we wouldn't have tear ducts.
But what is happening to you is harmful. Your boyfriend is abusing you. You need to get out now. Don't wait. I'm going to give you a link that you can use if you need it, but if you have family close, go to them. Let them keep you safe. Get away from this man.
Here's a link to get you started:
http://www.ncadv.org/
Please get help. I'm a former police officer and I know what can happen. Don't remain a victim.
You deserve a safe and happy life, but the first step is up to you, sweetheart. Be brave and take it.
2006-10-06 15:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by morganlsams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying isnt harmful to do but having a toxic relationship is. Thats exactly what you have going on and I think if you put yourself before him you would be a happy and independent women. You are not living life based upon YOUR happiness.
2006-10-06 14:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by fancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's good for the body when it's needed, but you seriously need to get rid of this guy. No offence, but he seems just to be playing with you, or enjoys making you cry, I'm serious, danger hides around every corrner, and around ever corrner is danger.
2006-10-06 14:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you getting out of this relationship besides pain? Why are you with someone who makes you cry everyday? Get out and get some help.
2006-10-06 14:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW! Don't let ANYONE treat you that way! Drop him like the bad habit that he is, and move on with your life...your too young to have such a dreary future....Get rid of him and the tears will stop. Good luck to you girl.
2006-10-06 14:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
crying is powerful on your wellbeing to alter temper, yet i think of it truly is risky on your epidermis.i evaluate which you will pour out your coronary heart to maximum suitable chum, or you may pass to activity with the intention to circulate your interest. in short, make detrimental thoughts to outdoors out of your physique. i'm hoping it is effective to u!
2016-10-02 00:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***. Crying is healthy for you but only to a certain extent.
If he makes you cry every day you've absolutely got to move on. He's emotionally distroying you.
2006-10-06 14:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by justasking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crying actually good for you. But what he is doing is bad.
2006-10-06 14:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋