Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

we are alredy living apart she left the home after agreed seperation has been gone 18 months agreed to selling house now wants all proceeds or after now finding buyer she says she wont sell i can no longer afford the morgage how do i stand she makes no contribution due to mental health issues

2006-10-02 08:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by c.roughton@btinternet.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Situation: You met this woman out at a bar & were immediately taken with her. She was witty, intelligent, funny, beautiful, & you approached her right away, talked all night, & began dating soon afterwords. At a certain point, she became disconnected, aloof, & even spat out a few quotes that one could classify as 'psycho' such as mentioning your parents or something crazy like that. For obvious reasons, things ended & you two went your separate ways. Months or even years down the road (regardless of whether or not either of you are with someone else) you meet her again & talk. She apologizes for acting like that & explains that she was into drugs (using and dealing - not the nasty stuff though! Lets say pot and pharmaceuticals.) & only acted like that & said those things in order to keep you from wanting to get close to her cause she didn't want to reveal her secret. Do you keep thinking she's crazy, become offended, become more attracted, understand, ??? What is your reaction???

2006-10-02 08:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In school the other day, I was sitting next to the girl I always sit next to in that class. We are friends, but nothing outside of school really. Last class she was touching me alot, like leaning her arm against mine and putting her hand on my shoulder and stuff. She never used to do this before. Do you think she is beginning to like me? Or just getting more comfortable with me?

2006-10-02 08:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We've been together for almost 5 months now but... It's been over a month since we've last seen or talked with each other and I'm starting to really worry and think if it's his way of telling me that he needs more space or he wants to break up... and I don't want to get so emotional about it, but he was/is so wonderful. I don't know what to do, does anyone have advice?

2006-10-02 08:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by Theresa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I have become best friends after we broke. We actually know each other better now than before. He calling me his rock. What does it mean? Is it a step to getting back together some time down the line??

2006-10-02 08:21:25 · 25 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 08:20:27 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

4 some reason I recieve a Christian magazine at home. Ive read articles. They admit Chrstian men have affairs at the same frequency as non-Christians. However,the Christians (according to this book) blame a mans temptations on women. That women who dress provactively,even moderately,Im not talking halters and boy shorts,just simple sexy,cause men to stare cheat and sin. That us women are responsible for men not being able to keep their eyes in their sockets and penises in their pants. Has it occured to anyone that looking is normal and if even "christians" cant fight it,than its not so bad? This is not say say its okay to gawk when your commited,but,notice and turn away out of respect to your partner. Cheating is wrong,whatever religionwhatevr flashy girl is in your view,what you do is up to you and your willpower,but its different for a Christian because they justify it by pretty girls looking pretty,so they say they were "forced to sin"(actual quote). Any comments???

2006-10-02 08:20:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I try not to bring up the situation but i really like him. i want our relationship to be more official, he says he's scared though cause his last girlfriend changed him. I don't want to do that to him, i like him the way he is now, what do i do?

2006-10-02 08:20:08 · 20 answers · asked by mink_kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 08:19:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-02 08:19:41 · 27 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

so today... this guy i like a little bit asked me out... its only the 2nd month of school and i am sure i really like him but i told him i would think about it... because i dont really know him all that well.. hes a nice guy and i really i like him but the only problem is that my mom doesnt really want me going out with anyone now and i dont want to sneek around with him but i really like him and i dont know what i should do... like should i tell her or not?

2006-10-02 08:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by maureen 2 in Singles & Dating

I know a girl for the last 3-4months. I think i know her really well and the same with her. Few weeks before she told me that she loves me and I was confused regarding that question.... but i finally told her I too love her. But now I `m really confused that I am really in love with her or not. Its true that I always want to talk to her and i always want her in front of my eyes. I am 17 and I think that its too early to realise what love actually is?? So is this a mere attraction or love???

2006-10-02 08:18:57 · 35 answers · asked by i_wanna_ask 1 in Friends

2006-10-02 08:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

t htre is too much too put all the info down here neither person cheated but at the moment we are both suffering depression have been living apart for nearly a year and 2 day she told me its over and wants divorce dont want to loose her but have enough probs sorting my day 2 day stuff and dont have strength 2 sort problems out any advice welcomed

2006-10-02 08:18:00 · 13 answers · asked by on a need 2 know basis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 08:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by bigjim_20 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is friends with a guy in the "Chrome Shop Mafia" and we have been invited to watch the show with them on Fridays at a local Joplin bar. Does anyone know if Ryno on the show is married or has a girlfriend? I seriously want to get with this guy but don't want to step on someone else's toes if he is taken.

2006-10-02 08:17:20 · 5 answers · asked by Girl gone wild 1 in Singles & Dating

it has only been 12 minutes and the replies i have received has left me in tears. i asked for prayers and i got more than that,..i received hope. THANK YOU to all who replied.i am a 37 year old man who just wants to be happy and be a good father and if she will ever have me again, a good husband. i made many mistakes but i have learned from them.
i send prayers to all of you.thank you again from my heart.

2006-10-02 08:17:02 · 5 answers · asked by broken 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 08:16:47 · 64 answers · asked by carolm876 1 in Weddings

Telling someone you like them and they completely humiliate you
or
Not telling them, and never knowing if they felt the same way

I don't know which is worse!?

2006-10-02 08:16:25 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Were going the movies and for a coffee. Hmm what to wear, what to wear?

2006-10-02 08:15:57 · 28 answers · asked by hypercb1 2 in Singles & Dating

I have lived with my boyfriend for about 17 months now....I was separated from my ex when I met my boyfriend and we really hit it off. My relationship with my ex was doomed to divorce no matter what so meeting a new man had no bearing on breaking up my previous relationship...that relationship was just OVER!! Since moving in though we have had alot of financial set backs, at first we were living in a small apartment that didn't have enough room for us and I was commuting two hours round trip a day to work so when I got my tax return I used the money to move us closer to my work into a bigger apt. I am still NOT divorced from my ex cause except for when I got my tax return I just haven't had the money to do it. I guess if I had saved here and there I might have but I get wrapped up in stress and paying bills and thinking more about my life with the man I have now, I tend to "forget" sometimes that I am still married to my ex. Sounds crazy but its true. (see additional details)

2006-10-02 08:15:52 · 14 answers · asked by Shae 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a close friend that I have feelings for her. Through emails, we tried to define things, but we are more confused than ever. She has the same feelings and defined them as not developing into anything but good to know they are there. She kept asking me what I wanted with her since we were already friends. Now, I set up a meeting to set things straight. She's really interested in hearing what I have to say. What does she want to hear from me?

2006-10-02 08:15:19 · 11 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 08:15:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband quit smoking pot for 2 years. He started up again and lied about it. When he finally told the truth he asked if I wanted to. What the hell? I am so mad about the lying that I have lost alot of trust. Should I just chill out and let it slide or will he become the full blown pot head he once was? Any suggestions on how to handle this?

2006-10-02 08:14:37 · 42 answers · asked by limeallure 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Something fishy is going on.

2006-10-02 08:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a teenager going to on a trip to another state with my bf and his family for a wedding, and I don't know exactly what to bring. I don't wanna forget something (which I ALWAYS end up forgeting something) so ideas will be much appericated! thanks in advance!

2006-10-02 08:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by kennah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is not on the birth registration form can he take her and tell the cfs im doing drugs and #### will they believe him?

2006-10-02 08:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by hollywood 1 in Family

a guy, staying opp. to my flat has fallen in luv with me......wenever he sees me he smiles and shows all those idiotic gestures.....i think he has told his whole family tht he luvs me.....they luk at me as though im goin to marry him the next week......i want to get rid of this........i need sum advises ,how to deal with this prob...??? pls help mee???

2006-10-02 08:13:23 · 9 answers · asked by serena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm just curious... how many of you are brave enough and honest enough to admit that you know that this lifestyle is your choice and it's harmful to you but prefer it at this time for one reason or another? no judging here... just wondering......

2006-10-02 08:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by ana g 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 08:13:07 · 5 answers · asked by Miss T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships