Telling someone you like them and they completely humiliate you
or
Not telling them, and never knowing if they felt the same way
I don't know which is worse!?
2006-10-02 08:16:25 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not telling them would be worse for me.
If they humiliated me, then at least I know how much of a jerk they are!
Wondering "what if" would hurt me more
2006-10-02 08:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answered this yesterday....
Telling someone you like them and they completely humiliate you...
At least you took the chance and let the person know your feelings. Embarassment goes away, only lasts a short time.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Not telling them, and never knowing if they felt the same way....
Doing this will leave you wondering . I would rather have at least taken the risk of being embarassed than to have always wondered "What if"?
2006-10-02 08:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think never knowing is worse, you are always wondering, always thinking. What is to say you will be humiliated. If a guy humiliates you when you tell him how you feel then trust me you have had a lucky escape.
2006-10-02 08:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not telling them. You must always take that chance. The greatest relationships are formed, empires built, music made...when chances are taken. You might meet the love of your life or you might be humiliated, you never know until you do it. A definite is always better than just wondering. Good luck.
2006-10-02 08:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not telling them. If you don't take a risk then you will never know what could have become of it. If you never tell them then you carry that around " What if". If you do tell them humiliation is much easier to get over.
2006-10-02 08:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Not telling them, and never knowing is by far the worse.
Second, if that is you in yoru picture, that person has to be on crack to humiliate a beautiful soul like you. I think their brain chemistry is not working. But lets just assume they do humiliate you, you wouldnt have any other problems finding another fish in the sea, that i guarantee.
2006-10-03 00:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's worse not telling them. If you tell them and you are humiliated at least you'll know and you can move on. If you don't tell them you will always live with the 'what if' in your head.
2006-10-02 08:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Trixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not telling them, i never told her and i still have dreams about the girl, a big regret! If you are humiliated its usually just by shallow P***** that are judgemental and insecure anyway, if it goes right and the person does say they like you too, these people would be the first to get jealous too.
2006-10-02 08:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id never confess my liking to anyone id just reach over and kiss them they will get the point lol . Personaly if you think about it is being huimiliated that bad you know its all in the mind of how bad it is , i mean if you for example were hot for me and i wasent interested and i said i dident feel the same way then it would be how secure you are would dictate how stupid you would feel . Anyway im rambling on and its all your fault .
2006-10-02 08:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not telling them & never knowing , at least if they humiliate you then you know the truth & can move on & find someone else, but if you never know then you might just miss out on the best person for you.
2006-10-02 08:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋