Do I really love her?

Question

I know a girl for the last 3-4months. I think i know her really well and the same with her. Few weeks before she told me that she loves me and I was confused regarding that question.... but i finally told her I too love her. But now I `m really confused that I am really in love with her or not. Its true that I always want to talk to her and i always want her in front of my eyes. I am 17 and I think that its too early to realise what love actually is?? So is this a mere attraction or love???

Answer 1

i think you can truely love somone at 17

Answer 2

Do you think about her before you sleep? Do you wonder what your life would be if she ll not remain in Ur Life........... If the answer is yes to both of these then may b BUT what i Think personaly is that was only infatuation..........you just became used with her being there and became accustomed in doing and experiencing things together............. it was too early to say that it is the Real love..but don't forget that infatuation could develop into true love......... but it takes time.. If after so many year the feeling never fades then go On................. She's the One! but for now stay as close friends.

Answer 3

I think if you have to ask that question then you're not. You know when you're in love. Sometimes when it's head over heels you don't know what you're doing half the time because every thought process revolves around the one you love (That sounds scary ... almost like an obsession.) Love will grow with you so if the feeling you are currently experiencing is love then you'll wish to spend every moment with her, you'll want to spend the days and nights with her. And as you get more attached to each other it will be harder and harder to leave her side. Let us all know how you make out.

Answer 4

No If You Hesitated On Saying I Love You To . You Dont Love Her And If You Find Out You Dont Tell Her Now Dont Let Her Fall In Deeper Love With You Because It Will Be Harder To Break Up

Answer 5

Since you say you are confused it means that you are doubtful. It is possible to miss a person, always want to talk to the person, spend all your time with the person and yet not really be in love with that person. Love has to grow and sustain, it can happen at 17 or anytime. Allow the feelings to mature, you will know when it happens.

Answer 6

Love doesn't matter that much. You're a male, and you love women. What matters is whether you feel comfortable with her enough to make commitments and promises (marriage is like going into business together) which you trust her to keep and she can trust you to keep about money, children, fidelity, etc.
Love is just the icing, not the cake of the matter. It is a four letter word for 'attraction' or 'chemistry', but it's Nature's way to get you to try.

Answer 7

u've answered ur question urself in ur question. just take a look at ur question once again and ull get what ur looking for. u seem to b a very practial person. but i think u wont like the truth as truth is always bitter. but still i would like to tell u that u hav ur whole life to love but once ur career years are gone theyll never come back and let me tell u 1 thing even girls like only those boys who like their work are more focused to achieve what they want. so start working hard for ur goal. i dont say leave her im only advicing u to pay more attention on ur studies as they should b only ur motto. so work hard and stop wasting ur time here and there and if u really love her and she loves u ull be together . thats what i pray for boh of u. all the best.

Answer 8

Mohabbath sirf 16 ya 17 salo main he hote hai uske bad sirf aiyashe he hosakthe hai..

btw since you said you want to speak to her and spend time inher company on the top of it she loves you i guess there are very few people in these world who are loved by someone rather than other way round

if you dont love her now may be later on u will be left with regrets

Answer 9

sometimes we get caught in the moment and end up reflecting what the other has said but i won't say that its wrong..

It's healthy to have doubts because it proves u care about ur life.

I still think its too soon.....3-4 months...thats just the start...the serious deep stuff that hurts is yet to come and i'm not talking about sex...i am talking about ur emotions...

Sometimes its best to take things slow and get to know each other....people go through alot of changes through a relationship and ur feelings do change...

I think u should be honest with ur girl but be sure to tell her that this doesn't mean u didn't mean what u said, when u told her u loved her...only that u feel too young to consider it serious...can we take things slow and that its sensible to not to expect too much....

Speak to her with respect and not in a malicous way...

Good luck!

Answer 10

hi, i don't know how you feel about that girl. i want to tell you that there is no age of love. if your heart says that you have choose right love frothing go ahead of it, but sometime you feel that if not right then don't take to much time to think about because you will feel like you are in sky when you are in love. love is the most beautiful thing to understand. if you are confused with your love then forget it try to find your true love.

Answer 11

I think you are right, you are only 17 and are too young to know what love is yet. At this age, you should be having fun and dating several people while you get to know yourself and what you want out of life.