i'm just curious... how many of you are brave enough and honest enough to admit that you know that this lifestyle is your choice and it's harmful to you but prefer it at this time for one reason or another? no judging here... just wondering......
2006-10-02 08:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by ana g 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dear jazz... i appreciate your honesty... i'm sorry you're family judges you because you know, we're all sinners, there's not one sin worse than another in God's eyes but God still loves you and everyone else.. he just hates the sin.. not the sinner.
2006-10-02 08:30:19 · update #1
dear chess2420, thank you for your openess also... i appreciate it.
2006-10-02 08:31:48 · update #2
poor lollipop.. everything that you're accusing me off you're doing it yourself.. i'm not judging anyone or being rude, but you've done both and being insulting. i don't wish anyone any ill... not even you.
2006-10-02 08:34:18 · update #3
hi logicincarnate, i really do appreciate your honesty... i worry for you because you mentioned that you went through a stage of depression, did you ever seek help for that because it is a very serious disease and unfortunately alot of people don't seek treatment for depression. i have no doubts that you are a spiritual person and all i would like to say to you is if you're still having some doubts, maybe you can talk to your clergyman... again.. i hope you don't think i'm judging you cuz i'm really not, we could be talking about any number of things, this just happens to be the topic i chose. and please don't think i'm judging you or that i think i'm better than you cuz that's not the case at all.... like i said... we're all sinners... not one of us is better than the next person.... but God loves us all anyways. Peace.
2006-10-07 14:17:09 · update #4
You are judging. You are rude. I hope your find out tonight that your boyfriend is Bi and in love with your ex.
2006-10-02 08:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I would love to put your mind at ease here but I never chose to be attracted to men. In fact I went through a time of fear and depression because I could not make myself attracted to women, and believe me I tried.
now, I don't really see how my sexuality is harmful to me. I practice safe sex and I believe in monogamy. I also don't do drugs and I take care of my body. I'm pretty spiritual too.
I know this may not be the answer you were looking for but you asked for the truth.
Edit: Ha ha, you don't have to worry about me. I'm very happy with myself and my life now.
Discovering one's own sexuality is scary for anyone I think. I think that being gay magnified that fear for me because no one else expressed the same kind of feelings I felt. I felt, for lack of a better term, defective because I was getting feelings for guys instead of girls. However, after I found out that there were other people who were gay and were living happy successful, I was able to accept myself as a normal person.
I understand you're not judging me and I would like to than you for caring about how I feel. I wish you all the luck in life.
2006-10-06 16:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Hatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im striaght but homosexuals donot choose if they do not participate they will be lonley and unhappy imagine just like if you were watching a movie that you had no intrest would you watch it,or the movie that you like so much its right on your finger tips will you go out and watch the movie that you find so amazing ,if you dont watch it how would you feel,homosexuals would be unhappy if they didnt have someone,i know plenty of homosexuals
2006-10-02 08:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's very hard for me because my family judges me about how my religioon highly disaproves of it. But this is who i am!!! no shame in admiting that im gay.
2006-10-02 08:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by jazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a choice, cause, even though the desire lives within you, u can choose not to participate, just like other things in your life, being gay is a birht rite, but u can choose, and many do.....
2006-10-02 08:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'll admit it. then again if i could live life over again i would have done differently.
2006-10-02 08:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they know exactly what they're doin'.
2006-10-02 08:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM me or E- Mail me.
2006-10-02 08:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Angel of Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋