a guy, staying opp. to my flat has fallen in luv with me......wenever he sees me he smiles and shows all those idiotic gestures.....i think he has told his whole family tht he luvs me.....they luk at me as though im goin to marry him the next week......i want to get rid of this........i need sum advises ,how to deal with this prob...??? pls help mee???
2006-10-02 08:13:23 · 9 answers · asked by serena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have a guy friend come over and act like he is your boyfriend and then the guy will think you are not available.
2006-10-02 08:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i ask how you are so sure he has fallen in love with you, you don't say in your question that he has spoken to you or confessed his love for you? this is all a lot of suspicion and theory without any actual facts laid before us. talk to him and explain you are not interested but before you do , make sure of your facts, he may just been neighborly and friendly in his smile and "idiotic gestures" whatever they may be, and if that's the case you are going to be the one who ends up looking rather silly.
2006-10-02 08:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be seen with another guy to get the point across, or mail everyone wedding announcements with some guys name on it that they don't know. If the prize is already spoken for maybe he will search elsewhere.
2006-10-02 08:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not interested in him, get him to walk over and talk with you outside. Tell him that you are hearing these rumors and want them to please stop. You could start spreading your own rumors if he would like and tell him that they would not be very flattering. You know, things like-I heard that he has sex with large dogs, etc. It should shut him up. Ya hate to do it, but?!?!
2006-10-02 08:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you are not interested. i have liked allot of people that did not want to date me and allot of people have liked me who i did not want to date. its a part of life but living next to them man that sucks. i say be honest i hope he gets it.
2006-10-02 08:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by rollerbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely bring over some male companions often.
2006-10-02 08:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dee Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him 'the finger' after this!
2006-10-02 08:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are in love with someone else.
2006-10-02 08:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run
2006-10-02 08:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋