Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

Me and my Ex been constantly arguing, breaking up and getting back together cos she constantly spend nights over her friend's houses and shyt. We dont go to same school so i dont know what she been doing. Everytime we always get into big argument over the phone, curse each other out, call each other names and all. She constantly says i shouldn't call her anymore after each fight, or that she doesn't wanna see me. I always leave her alone after the first day of the fight. The second day i call, she would still talk to me and all.

Do you think she still Love me? I love that gurl to death though! she's about to be 20 and i'm 22.

2006-10-02 14:45:29 · 11 answers · asked by PeaceMaker!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend said that here boyfriend that she has been dating for 6months called her a ghetto girl....now don't get me wrong the y spend oddels of noddles of time together she and he both have good jobs but am just curious to know what a ghetto girl is like is it ttattoos, slang dress code
my friend is very soft spoken and dress very neat i wonder what ppl consider too be ghetto?!?!?!?

2006-10-02 14:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by Missunderstood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has anyone outside your race mistreated you because of your looks and didnt want to date you because of your race? Just curious

2006-10-02 14:45:15 · 7 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 14:44:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I met a girl and we really hit things off pretty well...all the same common interests and what not, and went on a few dates...talked till sun up a few times etc. Then at the last minute on friday she cancelled our date saying she had to help a family member out for the weekend...no problem there sure. I waited until today *monday* to call her, no response at all....she doesn't even get online or anything, except to check her "myspace" I really dig this girl...even though its so soon *which is odd for me* but should I just move on? do you think shes blowing me off or what?

2006-10-02 14:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 14:44:12 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

does he really mean it? or is it just talk? i asked him about it he said she didnt mean anything to him! but he was calling his ex BABE! he said it was a drunk mistake! but it like no way! to top it off he is over proctective! i'm bi and yeah i look at girls and guys even though we aint together he tries to make sure i dont hook up with me! does he really care of is he puttint a front?

2006-10-02 14:43:51 · 3 answers · asked by Markii's Mommy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i undertand there is always someone out there for every person, but why can't you ever find him?
I'm 20, i go to bars, cafes, clubs, pubs, beach. yet never comming out with a guy or at least with a phone number. I'm the sort of girl that hates Slutty guys and needs to find the right one. i know im young but come on everyone needs there man,
In Aust, on the radio the new place for young people to meet is BINGO!!!! wow never thought i would see the day that this is on the radio. yes bingo is good but not that good.
So if you have any advice please let a Girl Know!

2006-10-02 14:43:39 · 21 answers · asked by holdengirl005 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and I need to talk to my mom about something but don't know how to talk to her. I've never been able to talk to her about anything, I've tried to improve my relationship with her, but it just doesn't work. Here's the basics, I'm trying to rebuild a relationship with my father who I haven't seen in nearly a decade. I'm not mad at him, I've talked to him over the phone for the past few months, and the situation is complicated, but yeah. I asked him if I could see him sometime and he said that was all right with him. I told him I would talk to my mom to make sure it's okay. I don't know how to talk to her about this, but I really do need her permission to see him. What is history for her is, in a sense, a future for me. My father isn't a bad person, he is fine now, and he loves me and I'm sure of that. Please, any help is greatly appreciated.
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17 minutes ago
He used to have gambling problems and went undiagnosed for bipolar- so he probably was very depressed at times and went into mania at others, but now he is on medication which seems to be working well.

12 minutes ago
Thank you for all of your answers thus so far..Just one more thing, I'm not sure how to get over my fear of talking to her. My fear isn't really that she'll say no, I know how to stand my own ground in a polite, respectful way, but just getting the nerve up to talk to her is hard for me. I've always had trouble with this.

10 minutes ago
I'm not going behind my mom's back. She knows I've been talking to him, believe me, I wouldn't do that.

7 minutes ago
To clarify things up a bit, there is nothing between them any more, nothing at all, they don't like or dislike each other, it's just neutral. I understand my mom has the right to put up a defense about this, and I understand she may have mixed feelings. I don't think they got divorced because she didn't love him anymore, it was becasue he was unable to take care of me, and she knew he wasn't a good father for me, and I love her deeply for that. But i still have a broken relationship with her. She has like 0 patience and I"m just so confused!
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6 minutes ago
I really need help..Please, I'm so stressed and confused!

2006-10-02 14:42:51 · 13 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Family

The trip is paid by me...i live with my parents because they wont allow me to move out until i marry...which i get an earful from my friends due to the fact im 21 and help pay for the house too half my pay every 2 weeks...i have a right...but in these circumstances.. she is the boss there is no getting around her. she just keeps saying no.....what could it be?

2006-10-02 14:42:19 · 3 answers · asked by *LuckyStar* 1 in Family

2006-10-02 14:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 14:41:22 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have friends but not best friends. I want a BF by my birthday so that he can spoil me. I already spoil myself but its nothing like spending someone else money. its this dude at work gives me the eye but im scared to approach him (i feel like he should approach me). for one ive never dated anyone on the job or at anywhere that i have to see them all day everyday. i wouldnt mind talking to the dude that work with, hes cute! anyways i would like to know yall input. also, there are people that wanna be with me but i know that its not going to work and thats why i dont pursue it.

I had posted this earlier people was saying that i am shallow. i totally disagree! i want a BF for more than spending his money, also his companionship. what is wrong with being pampered. NOT A D@MN THING! besides i have my own money!

The two above paragraphs are posts that I had posted. People was saying that Im desperate, which im not. if i was desperate i would talk to the ppl that im interested in.

2006-10-02 14:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by i ♥ my cat 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy who lives 2 hours away from me. I love him very much but I'm just not feeling the relationship like i did when we first started dating. I mean i've only seen him twice and i'm always the one who has to go to him. We both don't have cars but i at laest have my best friend to drive me up there but it just seems everytime he wants to see me he wants me to go up there and i'm getting sick of having to make my friend take me to see him. He also doesn't have a phone and sometimes he either doesn't call me all day or he'll tell me he'll call me back on his friends or sisters phone and doesn't which gets me frustrated cuz here i am waiting on him to call and he doesn't. So how can i break up with him without hurting his feelings and hoping to maintain a friendship with him.

2006-10-02 14:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He is 18 and I am 17. We only knew each other for a month before we started dating. We are both in our senior year of high school, and would not get engaged until at least the summer before college.
We have discussed it before on many occassions and I am just wondering, would you say we were too young? I have no doubts whatsoever about spending the rest of my life with him, and neither does he. What we are worried about is the reaction of our (mostly his) parents.
If anyone has been in this situation before, did it end happily?
I am really just looking to see if the majority of you out there think that we are too young.
Thanks for your input! I appreciate you taking your time to help.

2006-10-02 14:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by short n sweet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Growing up, I don't think I've ever seen an example of men 100% faithful. I know when I ask women this question, they always telll me that yes it's possible and not to settle for a man who cheats. However, I know that men think differently. So I guess I wanna know from different men's perspectives. Are you faithful? Could you be? What makes a man stay faithful? Should I settle for someone who I know isn't faithful, even though he treats me well in other areas?

2006-10-02 14:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Natural Beauty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So i had a tonne of dirt delivered to them while they were at work. Is this wrong?

2006-10-02 14:39:42 · 5 answers · asked by cremcharl 3 in Friends

I've been working at this place for the past six months. She's blond and is decent looking as well. She has been saying stuff like, you really know how to read my mind. Gee you know about stuff before I say it. She also like touching me. Every time we talk, before I or she leaves, she either touches me on the shoulder or hand. Lately she's been lightly poking me in the back. I really like her and the signs she's been throwing at me I think she likes me too! Any advice?

2006-10-02 14:39:37 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy alot... so that is pretty much it.

2006-10-02 14:39:07 · 21 answers · asked by happyflowergirl37 1 in Singles & Dating

Do girls as givers enjoy this activity? Obviously we, guys like receiving it. Is it the power of turning him on, act of giving or something else that makes you want to do it on guys. And do most girls feel comfortable swallowing, if so does it taste good. Can a girl be addicted to this? What are girls thoughts on facials? Also, is it more intimate than vaginal sex?

2006-10-02 14:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has gone for four years paying about 3/4 the amount you can request for child support. Now the mother of his child (he has no custody and now that we are married) is asking for the full amount of money. Can she fully get that if it is literally impossible for my husband and I to make a living giving that much money per month? He already gives $800/mos in child support etc... and it would be much greater if she asks for more. His situation has changed with a new apartment, new job, a wife (who is going to school full time and not working) and we just simply can't afford that. Can she really get that money or can that be fought?

It is not that he minds paying the money for his child, but at the same time he does have the right to be able to live a stable life - pay his bills, put food on the table, etc... I don't work because my Masters program for this particular year will not allow it (I'm student teaching).

2006-10-02 14:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by actresscye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have a very healthy sex life, however I love to have sex with him on a momentarly basis. He thinks that I should make the first move. For example if he knows I want him he wont come after me, he'll expect for me to come after him. Is this normal? Should I feel like I need to make the first move always and will I look like a NINFO if I do"?

2006-10-02 14:37:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres the thing....my ex is my 1st love and I am still very much in love wit her and have all these feelins towards her...the only problem is im havin trouble tellin her...I told her that I would tell her all my feelins 4 her but im a lil nervous and I really dont know how 2 start off so if theres anybody that can help me out as 2 how I can do this it would deeply be appreciate

2006-10-02 14:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At the end of the month I will be with my current girlfriend for a year. And this is the longest ive ever dated someone. I am just looking for ideas for a few good gifts to give her. Ive never been that great at buying things for people so I appreciate any help you can give me. She is 25, if that helps any. Thanks

2006-10-02 14:36:50 · 12 answers · asked by Bucfan 2 in Singles & Dating

A great guy gave me his phone number on Saturday. When is it ok to call him? I know the rule for guys is 72 hours. What is the rule for girls?

2006-10-02 14:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by pink_in_grn_mtns 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I'm interested in, and I've heard that zeal and great sex appeal can really help break the ice. What are good examples of sex appeal a girl should have to make her attractive?

2006-10-02 14:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can this work?

2006-10-02 14:35:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't give me stupid answers I know that it's kind of a stupid question butreally. IN fifth grade I asked this boy out and at first he said I don't know. This boy named Kris his best friend was teasing me because I asked him out.So then I got anyod and said that I don't like him anymore. But then my crush whispered something to my kind of friend his name is Ernest. Well then Ernest said that my crush said yeah I didn't believe though so then my crush said I mean it I mean if u still like me. But the next day I told my friend she didn't believe it so then she asked him if that's really really true but he said that he said no. So then I asked Ernest and he said that my crush didn't want to hurt m feelings. BUt since that day he acted really starange. So did he really mean it.

2006-10-02 14:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Singles & Dating

Help! I feel like crying, but I don't know if that's the right thing to do! Me and my brothers and sisters ahve to live with this man! He child abuses us! he's always yelling. He told us that our parents were unimportant and that they never cared for us, even though I know they did! He told us that our parents would have gave us up anyway! i know he's wrong, it's just making all of us feel worse! No one will do anything about it! Some people don't even believe us! My 14 year old brother is badly hurt, he has a sharp pain in his head and his back in bleeding and he won't talk much, I think it's cause he's in too much pain, my 10 year old brother is very sick! he has bad asthma, and he lost his inhaler, no one will take us to get him another one! He has a very high fever and it's getting worse! What should we do! None of the s here even care, expectually the man of the house! So if you'd like to help us, then email or im me, I may not reply until tomorrow, it's already 2:36 am!

2006-10-02 14:35:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My family is prejudice but i love boys who is any thing but white!
If my dad finds out he will have nothing to do with me! but im just not attracted to white guys, i have tried dating white boys millions of times im just not attracted to them

2006-10-02 14:35:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family