can this work?
2006-10-02 14:35:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a really good ques. I'll give a guy's point of view, OK? It sounds like you hope he, or maybe you, will change as well as grow. Depends on what things he lacks which you may wantin a relationship. Too short? (can't ch.) too fat? can do. Doesn't like your music? movies? Friends? too quiet? writes long boring answers like this one? This will not change, even if he goes along with it. He will resent it , and that is important. It is called Incompatibility. ask any divorcee. Luck Rat
2006-10-02 15:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent most my life going for the wrong men. Then 2 kids and a divorce later I was told this guy wanted to date me. I said I wouldn't date him if he were the last man on earth. We knew some of the same people. Well, I got him to take me home one day from a party and we talked. He asked me out. I went. I was struggling money wise, working , low income housing. My washer quit. I mentioned it to him on the phone. the next day he was there with a used washer putting it in. You know, my opinion of this man changed. No man ever did anything like that for me before. We dated, he was good to my kids, he traded his pick up for a station wagon so we could all fit in. So, my knight was someone I grew to love because he is a good person...18 yrs. and he still gets me anything I want if we have the money. So, yes, if he's good it can work!
2006-10-02 14:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might or might not work. A guy can be really great, but sometimes you are just not attracted to them. It's perfectly normal. You can give it a try to see if there's a chemistry in a month or so. If not, I would suggest you break it off right away before both of you get hurt. Good Luck!
2006-10-02 14:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see why you're confused! I would say your next move should depend on him. If you're getting friendship vibes from him, just be friends and don't push it. If you think he feels the same way, go for it! You can always ask him what he thinks of you and where he sees the two of you going. Good luck!
2006-10-02 14:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps over the next 10 years...
2006-10-02 14:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can!!! All great relationships need to be worked on...
The passionate, love-at-first-sight kinda thing... now *that* wouldn't work.
2006-10-02 14:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it a try, get to know him if you don´t end up dating maybe you can be friends, or he can introduce you to someone else, get to know him you have absolutely nothing to loose.
2006-10-02 14:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe maybe not
2006-10-02 14:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe......
2006-10-02 14:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋