Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

Granted I was once nice looking- men used to walk into walls staring-- it was great, but now I am 30, heavy, and working a tough job. I lost 40 + pounds recently and men and women have started paying attention to me (for different reasons). Problem is, while I am getting interested looks from men, and asked out often, I haven't been asked by a man that feels right-that is my age and seems whole, like a potential boyfriend. I am startin to feel old and washed up. I am wondering if I can ever have real love again. Not a one night stand or vacation for a weak married man- but something real. Do you men think its possible for a 30+ woman-- or am I at the end of the road?

2006-10-02 14:24:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, i am currently 19 years old and I am going to a community college for my 2nd year. I feel that I had a sucky teenage year when growing up, I have never had a girlfriend, which has been really starting to upset me. I am a average guy like anyone else I just have problems Fitting in or something. I moved around alot during my highschool years and made friends, but i could never keep them. Now i am back in my hometown and it is totally boring there is nothing to do and for the past year I just feel like im rotting my life away. There is a girl I like in this town and i have strong feelings for her, i even ask her out on a date, but she was seeing someone else and I gave her flowers one day, which made her day :D But it sucks...b/c i dont think I will ever have a relationship with her while she is with her boyfriend. I know i need to forget about it for now but its hard b/c i work with her also. I dunno some day I try to gain confidence and i do but it only last so long....

2006-10-02 14:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by mover1799 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i like. He knows i like him. I want to talk to him, but dont know how. Pleas give me some tips?

2006-10-02 14:23:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey someone just asked me out on saturday and i said yes but the one thing is is that this is the first guy that i have officially gone out with. so i am kinda scared, cuz i don't know what is gonna happen and things. it is also kinda awkward because we were friends and not only that but i am not really used to having a boy friend he wasn't at school today but i am still scared. so could u tell me about the first person that u went out with and how it turned out and how u felt when u were going out with that person? do u have any advise?
thanks
and wish me luck tomorrow

2006-10-02 14:22:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did Your GrandPa?

2006-10-02 14:22:39 · 5 answers · asked by snapacookie 2 in Family

Especially if you are straight.

2006-10-02 14:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me & My boyfriend never get to see each other!! =( I love him so much.. but my Mom doesn't approve of me having a boyfriend!! So we never get to see each other!! She says I cant date until Im 16!! & I wana see him so bad!! I have no clue what to do =(

2006-10-02 14:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is this right? is this normal?

2006-10-02 14:20:41 · 19 answers · asked by KU 4 in Friends

ok this happened months ago but i just thought about it so here it is...
I had a crush on this chick but she had a boyfriend and i did not know that so i backed off and focused on the single life. But then i called her and she started to ask me all of these questions about me previously going out with her (Know that i did go out with her but only for a couple pf days) so then she asked me all these very strange questions about me likeing her and all this stuf. So then i began to wond4er why is she doing this. And then she asked me the most iinteresting question that i will never forget. She asked me if i would be ok if she cheated on her boyfriend for me. So i did not know what to think and i began to get feelings for her and then the next day me and a few friends were hanging out and she just blew me off.
I need opinions and i want to know did she really like me or not .
I just need to get that dirt off my sholders

2006-10-02 14:20:29 · 15 answers · asked by Patrick Teh III 2 in Singles & Dating

Yep, I agree. Condoms are not a 100% safe because they can break or fall off, even the wrappers say they're not a 100% safe from diseases and pregnancy. Also, it saves alot of emotional drama. People won't have to worry about who's the father of the baby and women won't feel like they were taken advanage of. Sex shouldnt be taken lightly, it's no joke. Playing with sex is like playing with matches. why play with fire?

2006-10-02 14:19:27 · 35 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

my baby's father pays child support and a month ago was our son's birthday should he buy our son a birthday gift, just because he pays me child support?Or is the child support included in the birthday,and christmas gifts?

2006-10-02 14:19:18 · 13 answers · asked by thickness 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 14:19:06 · 1 answers · asked by kdgjohns 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife of almost three years have decided to part ways. We have one daughter. For the past year things have gotten steadily worse. I have tried talking to her, suggested marriage counsleing but nothing seems to work. I have fallen out of love with her because she has no desire to save the marriage and now neither do I.

I have been hanging out with a co worker lately and we have been talking alot about our prespective situations. We have gone through basically the same motions with our spouses. I have more in common with my new friend than with my soon to be ex wife, and we both can confide in each other and not have to worry about the other talking to other people.

People at work have said I have a glow in my eye when she is around and that I look at her like i'm into her, which is true. I have even had dreams about passoniatly kissing her.

Do you think that I may have found my true soulmate or is my problems with my wife clouding my judgement.

2006-10-02 14:18:59 · 3 answers · asked by Down but rising again! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Silly question. So since part of a Hooters Girl's job is to flirt how do you know if she's genuinely interested?

2006-10-02 14:18:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

things I can do to turn him on(get him horny)

2006-10-02 14:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by susu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 14:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by pollo p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok theres some girls at my school and there always saying rude stuff to me .im trying to get them back but not physicaly or in a way i could get in Big trouble

2006-10-02 14:17:38 · 25 answers · asked by Caroline E 1 in Friends

2006-10-02 14:17:29 · 17 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

i've kissed boys before(usually my boyfriends) but i had never made out with a guy before this saturday this guy(he is 17) tried to makes out with me(14) at first i thought he was going to give me a peck but i was wrong! im pretty sure he was a bad kisser...anyway as soon as i realised he wasnt just giving me a peck i pulled away...i didnt want my first"make out" to be like this...does this count as making out if i didnt do anything and i pulled away?

2006-10-02 14:17:24 · 6 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Singles & Dating

not like it would ever happen like ths, but if I was caught skinnydipping would your average parents be pissed about it? Like in theory is this something I should ask permission to do? It's just with friends.

2006-10-02 14:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by Staceyflourpond 3 in Family

My best friend likes me and I' not sure if I like him back because if something happens it could ruin our friendship and he is shorter than me and I'm afraid of getting teased.

2006-10-02 14:16:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just really sad right now.

2006-10-02 14:16:50 · 3 answers · asked by Liz♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 14:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by KT 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 14:15:42 · 4 answers · asked by pollo p 1 in Singles & Dating

P.S and hes gives me hugs

2006-10-02 14:15:03 · 10 answers · asked by hotballer24knc 1 in Singles & Dating

When i go out clubbing i must admit i like to flirt,i think its the thrill of the chase.....Most times i strike lucky.When i chat up girls i always tell them i am married,because most girls(drunk) like forbidden fruit so it makes my job easier.I have had "sex" with a few of them but never penetration.....Is that cheating???I fell it is not cause i have not had "full sex" with them....

2006-10-02 14:15:00 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 14:13:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I already know about Thursday nights at the Barcode (the rage). If you know of any other places to meet singles, post them also. I shall pick the best answer after I visit the place you suggested. Thanks again!

2006-10-02 14:13:35 · 2 answers · asked by Jaded Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Girls would u go out with a 5'7 guy not the hottest guy in the block if he had good personality or is it all about the looks cause I don't have a girlfriend and I don't think anyone at my school does like me so if you can answer you would be helping me a lot. Thank you.

2006-10-02 14:12:51 · 24 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 14:12:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships