ok theres some girls at my school and there always saying rude stuff to me .im trying to get them back but not physicaly or in a way i could get in Big trouble
2006-10-02 14:17:38 · 25 answers · asked by Caroline E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Einstein said, "great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds" He was speaking for himself. Take his example, develop your skills, talents, and passions, and your success will speak for you. I was made fun of a lot in middle school, but I focused on my music, became an opera singer, and in high school I blew their minds away, and all of the sudden I was popular. Of course I didnt want to be friends with the shallow people who like me for the wrong reasons, and also I didnt have time because I was preparing for my future. I now sing with a professional opera company. Les Brown said the greatest revenge is massive success. Dont worry about the weak insecure people who need a scapegoat to feel better about themselves. They are losers, and will never do as much with their lives as you will. And if you really are getting tired of it, just give them a nice punch in the face. It wont go on any kind of permanent record because you are in middle school :) Good luck!
2006-10-02 14:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a victim of BULLYING!!! In most schools now a days, there is a 0 tolerance for this kind of behavior. You really need to talk to a trusted teacher, guidance counselor or principal. If you try to ignore this crap, trust me, it will not just go away. It would only get worse......It would be different if there was only one girls picking on you, but there are a herd of them, so you really need to talk to someone tomorrow. No one deserves to go to a place where they are suppose to be learning and get this kind of treatment. If this were happening in the work place, they would get written up or FIRED. Please...get some adult assistance here. Take care and hold your ground.
2006-10-02 21:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by frigidx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, I just had to suck it up and deal with it. Middle school girls are evil, but it's not the end of the world. BELIEVE me, I lived in a town of 1200, and was the odd-one-out from third grade through my high school. Kill em with kindness. It works, but it may take a while. Once they realize they can't get you down, they'll move on.
Another note, if it gets REALLY bad, like you don't want to go to school bad, report it. This is harrassment.
2006-10-02 21:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by teeney1116 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't retaliate because you might be outnumbered. Also, it draws your focus away from your school work. Just concentrate on your own social circle of friends and your school work. And remember, you don't need EVERYBODY to like you but just try your best to like everybody. Snooty girls sometimes have personal issues that you aren't aware of. Maybe they are facing problems at home or having a hard time to keep up appearances. I don't think you'll want to be in their shoes either!
2006-10-02 21:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who makes another feel bad about themselves is insecure and trying to make themselves feel better.
The BEST way to get 'even' with a person who is cruel is to totally ignore them. Find things you love to do and pretty soon they will be wondering how come you are having more fun than them
2006-10-02 21:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is yet another case of what we like to call bullying... just try to avoid the people who make fun of you, and don't make any contact with them. If it keeps on bothering you, tell a trusted grown-up about your problem.
2006-10-02 21:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rocket Slime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw thats mean
talk to your counselor or a teacher instead of tryign to handle it urself. do u knwo why theyre picking on u ? im a sophmore and i go to a cahtolic highschool so i neevr had that problem bc i went to a small middle school
2006-10-02 21:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by oh baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try to ignore them. just think in your head "they're popular now, but in five years they'll be fat and then they don't have the rights to make fun of anyone again!" or "there insignificant to me and i am the superior." if none of those work make good comebacks at them, so good that they'll comeback with something stupid! hope this works for you!
2006-10-02 21:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by alex m. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them. Getting upset is what they want. Dont give them the pleasure of that. Stay strong.
2006-10-02 21:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snotty girls have been around since the beginning of time. The best thing to do is to ignor them....plain and simple.....just ignor them.
2006-10-02 21:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋