Me and my wife of almost three years have decided to part ways. We have one daughter. For the past year things have gotten steadily worse. I have tried talking to her, suggested marriage counsleing but nothing seems to work. I have fallen out of love with her because she has no desire to save the marriage and now neither do I.
I have been hanging out with a co worker lately and we have been talking alot about our prespective situations. We have gone through basically the same motions with our spouses. I have more in common with my new friend than with my soon to be ex wife, and we both can confide in each other and not have to worry about the other talking to other people.
People at work have said I have a glow in my eye when she is around and that I look at her like i'm into her, which is true. I have even had dreams about passoniatly kissing her.
Do you think that I may have found my true soulmate or is my problems with my wife clouding my judgement.
2006-10-02 14:18:59 · 3 answers · asked by Down but rising again! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are definately being clouded by what is going on in your life, but really what is going on in your life is making you who you are, so it is OK. Just be aware of it. It sounds like you havee found a great lady, and you could be very happy with her. Don't stop yourself from being happy......but do slow down. If she is all you think she is there will be years ahead of you for passionate kising. First you need to seperate from your wife, and at least file the papers. To do anything less would not be fair to any of you.
Good luck.
2006-10-02 14:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are into her so why don't you ask her to get to gether with you or something get to know her better.Becoming friends first wouldn't hurt. I am kind going though the same situation and I know I don't want to be with my spouse. I also have a crush on a co worker and I think it is the best. Good luck
2006-10-02 15:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 19:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋