hey someone just asked me out on saturday and i said yes but the one thing is is that this is the first guy that i have officially gone out with. so i am kinda scared, cuz i don't know what is gonna happen and things. it is also kinda awkward because we were friends and not only that but i am not really used to having a boy friend he wasn't at school today but i am still scared. so could u tell me about the first person that u went out with and how it turned out and how u felt when u were going out with that person? do u have any advise?
thanks
and wish me luck tomorrow
2006-10-02 14:22:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well just b/c you guys are going out doesnt mean hes youre boyfriend. You should hang out one on one and see how things go from there. I think alot of people automatically assume that dating means serious relationship which is okay, but it can put so much pressure on the situation. Go in thinking No Worries, No pressure. And just be his buddy, talk about whatever comes up and (the preverbial advice) be yourself. It can be awkward sure, but you cant go wrong when you go with the flo and let things take their course.
AND GOOD LUCK
2006-10-02 14:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do whatever is comfortable for you and don't let him pressure you into anything. Most of all, be yourself.
The first person I went out with I was 12. We went to the movies and held hands. It was nice. 26 years later and we still email.
2006-10-02 21:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and be yourself. Don't consider him a boyfriend just yet. Treat him just like you did when you were friends. You have an edge here, because you already know a little about him.
2006-10-02 21:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋