Granted I was once nice looking- men used to walk into walls staring-- it was great, but now I am 30, heavy, and working a tough job. I lost 40 + pounds recently and men and women have started paying attention to me (for different reasons). Problem is, while I am getting interested looks from men, and asked out often, I haven't been asked by a man that feels right-that is my age and seems whole, like a potential boyfriend. I am startin to feel old and washed up. I am wondering if I can ever have real love again. Not a one night stand or vacation for a weak married man- but something real. Do you men think its possible for a 30+ woman-- or am I at the end of the road?
2006-10-02 14:24:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why feeling so down,at thirty you are just beginning.Get out there and have you some fun and enjoy life.
2006-10-02 14:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 is washed up? I did not get the memo 23 years ago you young thing you.
I am not sure I know what you mean by a man who seems "whole" to you. As we pass through this life, if we live it at all, we pick up baggage. The trick is to learn to set it down that you may have a hand free to welcome the next opportunity you encounter.
You are not at the end of the road. Indeed you are not even at the halfway point yet. There is plenty of time for you to find happiness and love, but you can't just sit around, avoid taking chances, and hope it will fall in your lap.
2006-10-02 21:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not at the end of the road. Everyone goes through hard times trying to find the right person. Quit looking and just start living! Love will come your way when you least expect it! Take it from a 38 year old!.....:-)
2006-10-02 21:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 is sexy/ you could look just as good as you did at 20! But now your more mature-so you could tell who the players are a little early in the game-so get out there and enjoy-Mr. Right will come along-why not try someone a few years younger-less baggage-
2006-10-02 22:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes you can be attractive. If you feel you are out of options, change your scenery. Take a class somewhere, college or municipal. If you expand your horizons better choices will come. Don't give up unless you are a psycho you are better.
2006-10-02 21:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never too late to find love. Just try to find men that common interests or activities with you... you need to connect on some other level beyond physical attraction.
Good luck with your search!
2006-10-02 21:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Dylan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love to have a slightly younger woman and to me sized does not matter, its what is in a womans head and how she uses her talents that matters and who has an open mind, do u
2006-10-02 21:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need to see a picture.
2006-10-02 21:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋