When i go out clubbing i must admit i like to flirt,i think its the thrill of the chase.....Most times i strike lucky.When i chat up girls i always tell them i am married,because most girls(drunk) like forbidden fruit so it makes my job easier.I have had "sex" with a few of them but never penetration.....Is that cheating???I fell it is not cause i have not had "full sex" with them....
2006-10-02 14:15:00 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a bit confused...you are married but you go out "clubbing" without your wife? Why? If you want to go "clubbing" without her then why did you marry her in the first place?
The bottom line is...you are cheating. You are not cheating because you flirt or even because you go out to a club. You are cheating because you are being sexually intimate with someone who is not your wife. Where on earth did you ever get the idea that penetration is the only way to have sex...Bill Clinton? Penetration is the only way to get a woman pregnant but it is not the only way to have sex!
If your wife went to clubs and flirted and then got "lucky" would you be cool with that? Maybe the two of you have an "open marriage"?
Your life is your life and I am not about to judge you for the decisions you are making...however, be fair to your wife. If you want to be a player then don't you think it is a bit selfish of you to keep on lying to your wife? The two of you should have a serious talk and then you need to let her decide if she wants to stay married to you!
2006-10-02 14:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is cheating if there is any touching going on what so ever. Penetration isn't the only form of sex. How would you feel to know that your wife was doing the same thing with other guys because she didn't think it was cheating either? What is wrong with your marriage that you need to still have the thrill of the chase, the attention and more from other women? Either work on your marriage or have the decency to let your wife find someone who will be loyal to her and love her.
2006-10-02 14:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are cheating. Ever hear about trying the shoe on the other foot??? How would you feel if you found out that she was doing the same thing. If you are doing all of this, then I seriously doubt that you really should have gotten married to begin with. You are doing your wife and your marriage an injustice behaving the way you are.
2006-10-02 14:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think that you are cheating on your wife by doing that. If she is a christian, she has the grounds if she finds out to divorce you. I know that I am a guy but if I found out that she did that I would divorce her immediately. I think that you should flirt and talk but never "SEX" ever. unless you are married to that specific person. NO sex before marriage. or any oral or any other kind of "sex"
2006-10-02 14:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by will987456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nightmare ! I hope your wife finds out what an ignorant dog you are. In case you really are that stupid to think your behavior in any way isn't cheating here's your test question Dick....If you wouldn't be able to do it with your wife standing right there by your side ....A) it's cheating !
B) it's cheating!
C) it's cheating !
D) all of the above
What planet are you from ???? What are you drinking that you would actually be able to convince your sorry self your actions aren't cheating on your wife???? I HOPE SHE FINDS OUT SOON! What a DOG you are.....
2006-10-02 14:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a lot of growing up to do! You should either quit disrespecting your wife or get a divorce! How would you feel if your wife wasn't having "full sex" with another man? Would she be cheating? If you're looking for an answer saying your behavior is "ok" or to make yourself feel better, you won't get that from me!
2006-10-02 14:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u mean u havent had full sex with them. If they giving u oral sex that's sex either way u put it. So it is cheating. cant nobody stop u but urself. Just be considerate and dont bring ur wife any infections with ur behavior. She's the one who doesnt know what's going on here.
2006-10-02 14:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and i don't want my husband doing anything physical with another woman, and physical, or emotion contact is cheating, even phone sex and Internet sex. why can you just role play with your wife when your in the mood for change, trying something different and you can have a guilt free relationship.
2006-10-02 14:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost cut my head off, but not all the way. Am I still dead?
Your an idiot. You should tell your wife you have cheated on her- then you can have all the drunk girls you want and have "full sex" with them.
2006-10-02 14:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion on this subject is the minute the fly moves down you are cheating. Just think if your wife was in a great pair of jeans and someone unzipped her fly and started to you know what, what would you think ? same goes for both
2006-10-02 14:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋