My family is prejudice but i love boys who is any thing but white!
If my dad finds out he will have nothing to do with me! but im just not attracted to white guys, i have tried dating white boys millions of times im just not attracted to them
2006-10-02 14:35:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i've got a sister-in-law like that. finally married a native am. had 2 kids by a mex. maybe your parents would settle for the lighter skinned varitiy. if you've dated millions you must be REALLY old.
2006-10-02 14:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are as racist as your family. You chose a different race to hate.
Strong words, but you get the idea. You should distinguish between rebellion and genuine attraction or lack of attraction. Your attitude has much to do with your feelings. If you go into a situation with a bad attitude, you will have a hard time enjoying it. I am referring to dating. Don't make up your mind that you hate white, Caucasian, boys.
If it is a problem in your family, then you are young enough to wait. When you are old enough to be on your own, then you can do as you please within the confines of the law. As an adult your parents wishes are only wishes and not commands. As an adult your parents will have no authority over you. Until then, wait. Give white guys a fair chance....just a fair one.
2006-10-02 22:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how old you are. And what is anything but white? Last time I looked white was a color not a race (sorry my own pet peeve). Maybe you should look at the boys you are dating there are good and bad in every neighborhood...maybe you are just making poor choices with the "white" guys because you want to justify the drama you are asking for with your family. Maybe you should just stop dating for a time and really look at where you are and what you are doing... When you find the right person to love it won't matter what neighborhood he is from....
2006-10-02 21:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who is prejudice. You say that you love boys who are anything but white. If you were blind and could only judge a person by the way that they treated you, the way you felt when you were with them or away from them (if your feelings for them matured), the feelings when you held hands, or kissed, the way he talked to yu; the beautiful words that he said to you, the special way that he made you feel.....would this not be the one that you would live to love????
What if you then found out that he was white? Would you throw away all that you felt for him just because he was the "wrong color"??
The same goes for the black guy, or the chinese guy, or the asian guy....would you not base your feelings on how you felt when you were with them and not soley on the color of their skin or the race/nationality of their ancestors..passed down to them through their genes?
Open up your blind eyes....or rather close them.....and start loving people for who/what they are...not what COLOR they are!!!!
2006-10-02 22:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should like boys of every race. If you are prejudice against white boys, you need to find out why. Probably it has to do with rebelling against your father, though. Talk to a school counselor.
2006-10-02 21:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im white, married to a black man w/ 2 beautiful children. my dad has never seen them, wont even look at a pic of them...but i wouldnt change a thing. i love my dad, but had to live my life for me...every situation is different, but you have to figure out what is top of your priority list and then live w/ whatever choice you make. FYI-theres nothing wrong w/ white guys..its just a preference.
2006-10-03 00:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by imasmartass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I dislike people who are prejudice this is the only family you have and unless you're 100% able to take care of yourself you'll have to abide by their rules.
If you're on your own....you have to make a hard decision about how you want to live your life.
2006-10-02 22:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you cant help the person you like if you love someone there color doesnt matte to you dont worry about tour parents happiness worry about yours your the one who has to live with the person Im married to a black guy and i dont care what ignorant people say THERE will always be talk get over it
2006-10-02 21:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by weirded out 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell dad good bye and get out. Go live your life as you see fit.
2006-10-02 21:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW MY DAD SEEMS THE SAME WAY BUT I NEVER HAD A BF BUT I REALLY THINK ITS UP 2 U
2006-10-02 23:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋