Where do you find the right guys?

Question

Ok i undertand there is always someone out there for every person, but why can't you ever find him?
I'm 20, i go to bars, cafes, clubs, pubs, beach. yet never comming out with a guy or at least with a phone number. I'm the sort of girl that hates Slutty guys and needs to find the right one. i know im young but come on everyone needs there man,
In Aust, on the radio the new place for young people to meet is BINGO!!!! wow never thought i would see the day that this is on the radio. yes bingo is good but not that good.
So if you have any advice please let a Girl Know!

Answer 1

31 no man here..

so, if you happen to locate a good spot let me know.

Answer 2

If you go to college, then that's the best place to find a suitable guy that you can be sure has no bad addictions or anything. Pubs, bars, and clubs are the WORST places to find guys; all the guys wanna do there is pick up a couple of free a-s-s-e-s and then dump them for the night. Also try finding guys in the places you like the most; if you like to go to Barnes and Noble, try finding a guy there. If you love to shop at Abercrombie, try getting a job there so you could meet the guy-employees. Wherever your best interest is, is where you're gonna find your soul mate.

Answer 3

Statistics show that most couples meet through a mutual friend. do you have any friends who know any guys? Also, remember that your still young and still have a lot of life ahead of you. To get involved with someone now could mean slowing down your plans for the future. Be cautious. Don't look for guys at bars, clubs or anywhere alcohol is involved. my two sisters both met their future husbands in a grocery store! He'll find you when you least expect it!

Answer 4

Hi. You got to go to the right guy store. Here is what I mean. Make a list of the top five characteristics of your "right guy". For example, "he likes to read books with me on a rainy afternoon". That's one aspect of him that you can envision as a perfect partner. Make the list then ask yourself where would any man who acts like what you have just described be most likely to go? In my example: a bookstore. There will be more than one place ( a museum, a lecture, a class, a car show, etc etc). There is where you need to be spending some quality time because there is where Mr. Right hangs out.

Answer 5

Date a nice guy. They are single too. They are easy to spot. They have no one with them ever. They have jobs that require almost no thinking, but they think about things like philosophy anyway. They may seem like an average guy who lives nextdoor. It may even be someone you've seen everyday for the last year. I think you are looking in all the wrong places. And just the act of looking might be what's keeping you down. Stop looking and someone will find you.

Answer 6

Avoid bars, clubs and pubs. That's where the wrong guys hang out. Try libraries, laundromats, church, singles groups. But one answer was really really good. Go to these places, but stop looking because the right one will find you when you aren't looking. I found my Mr. Right in an online chat room, but you have to be extra careful there.

Answer 7

yeh well if you find one in a bar don't complain that he's a drunk....the bingo thing sounds good. Don't think that just because a guy likes bingo that he's dorky. Also try one of the dating sites.....webdate is pretty good. You scan the ones you like and meet them for a cup of coffee...Sometimes you have to kiss alot of frogs before getting a prince charming

Answer 8

i've got a few buddy's with the same question about girls, i don't have a wealth of years to look back on but i've noticed that most guys, who are stand up, are afraid of girls. not knowing what to say or the right moves. crapping themselves before they make a move. it's an epidemic, all the girls want a cool confident dude but not all cool dudes are confident. i do know that even nasty girls get hit on from time to time. and hot girls alot. so you've developed skills to asses guys rapidly and blow off the losers quickly. my advice to you maybe give a guy a little longer to strut his stuff than you normally would. and to the guys know yourself, grow some balls don't worry about the lines and don't be afraid of "no" cuz there's plenty of fish in the sea. then maybe we can all be friends. i'll put my high horse back in the stable now and get on my regular horse.

Answer 9

I've have found my ex-husbands in friend's parties not in a bar or in a pub. But it doesnt mean that u wont find a right guy in these places. And it depends how u are in the first date or how u keep it along.

Answer 10

You have probably met him already, but you are looking so hard for Mr. Right, that you can't see what's right before your eyes. Maybe he's holding back because you come off a bit desperate? Relax, take a deep breath and enjoy yourself. Ever heard of "misery loves company?" Well, so does happiness. Be happy. Stop looking. Why don't you make him find you?

Answer 11

Family and your extended friends. I have always had great success meeting great guys through family and friends. Not at the bar, club, etc. The friend or family member knows you, they pretty much know what you are looking for. My sister introduced me to who is now my hubby. It was my brother in laws boss! 11 years of marriage, 2 gorgeous boys, and 15 years later (total)...my sister was right!! Good luck hun, he is out there!