Okay I met a girl and we really hit things off pretty well...all the same common interests and what not, and went on a few dates...talked till sun up a few times etc. Then at the last minute on friday she cancelled our date saying she had to help a family member out for the weekend...no problem there sure. I waited until today *monday* to call her, no response at all....she doesn't even get online or anything, except to check her "myspace" I really dig this girl...even though its so soon *which is odd for me* but should I just move on? do you think shes blowing me off or what?
2006-10-02 14:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It definitely sounds like she is not interested. Maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I would ask her straight up, what is the matter. Maybe she got scared, maybe she's not interested? There could be lots of reason. Ask her first and if she doesn't respond, then move on. Why wait?
2006-10-02 14:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by strongfit13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it too seriously at the moment. She may just be having a hard time right now. I would lay off for a day or two, then email her on myspace, just let her know that you enjoy spending time with her and ask her if she would like to see you again. If you don't get a response within a few days, you can either try a last attempt and give her a call (leave a message instead of calling a bunch of times!!) or at this point, I would let it go.
2006-10-02 14:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by short n sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. She isnt married to you, she is still single and free and she does have a life outside of you. I am not saying she is seeing someone else, all I am saying is that sometimes things do come up and sometimes others cannot be at our beconing call. Just give her some time. There may have been some family issues that has gotten her attention for a short while or it could have been alot of things that happened. Just give it some time and try calling her again. If it happens more and more, I would say, yes, she is blowing you off. But dont give up now. There is no reason to.
2006-10-02 14:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's blowing you off or she's got something really serious going on. If I really liked a guy and I had cancelled on him, I would be sure to contact him later and offer to make new plans. So, either she hasn't contacted you because she's not interested. Or, there's a slim chance that something serious is going on with her family and she's really worried / busy with something else. I'd say the smart thing to do is move on. You could leave an opening for her; leave a message saying, well, if you want to get together sometime, give me a call. So then maybe if it was something serious she won't feel too stupid / guilty to call you when it's cleared up.
2006-10-02 14:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't know what to tell you. She could literally still be helping out her family member...things could have happened. Can you leave her a message? If you haven't already, call her and tell her that you are thinking about her...that you hope her weekend went ok and tell her that you were wondering if she wanted to do something on the coming weekend. If you hear nothing from her by the end of the week...there is a really good chance that she is, and I'm sorry.
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2016-10-16 03:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're jumping the gun here. It's still Monday in a lot of places, after all. Give her a couple of more days and try again. Her thing with her family member could have taken longer than she thought, or maybe she just has a lot to do today.
2006-10-02 14:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way to soon to think she is blowing you off. Give her at least a week to return your call. Don't call her everyday this week either! Maybe is is still helping the family member out, or she just needs some down time. Either way, don't smother her. And don't jump to conclusions.
2006-10-02 14:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jaded Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's blowing you off.Believe it or not, sometimes we don't want to talk on the phone. Also, if you've talked to her on the phone a lot lately, she may be worried that she's calling too much. And girls don't like it when guys call too much. Sure it's nice when guys call sometimes, but when they call every night, it gets a little annoying. Don't move on, she really isn't blowing you off.
2006-10-02 14:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it´s too soon to say she´sblowing you off, just relax and wait for a few days to say how things are going if in about 2 weeks you don´t hear from her then you can move on with your life, just wait and give it time.
2006-10-02 14:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋