Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

2006-10-02 15:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by dripguy91 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband came on and surprised me tonight with flowers. I had been so down because I thought he was mad at me but he said he was just having a bad day. He said I was a "good little girl" this morning and said he was giving me 2 "good girl points". I know that might sound weird but he has a system for me where I earn "good girl points" for doing things like having sex with him without questioning him or giving him a massage when he didn't ask me to or automatically cleaning up after him..things like that. He said I am up to 75 points now and he said I could "cash them in" for him to take me to the beach or I could wait til I get to 120 and he would take me on a cruise!!! I don't know what to do, i'm so happy. It might take me a few more months to earn those points and also I can get points deducted for being a bad girl, so I'm not sure what to choose. I know I would really like to go to the beach now but I have never been on a cruise. What should I do?

2006-10-02 15:35:29 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, heres the scoop- me and this guy have been talking for like a week or two and i really really really like him and he says he really likes me too but he has a girlfriend! They have only been dating like a few days longer than what weve been talking, he regrets going out with her but doesnt know how to tell her that he doesnt want to be with her anymore...what should he do??

2006-10-02 15:34:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 15:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by r3gulator2008 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy who didnt even know i existed but today he finally talked to me. it was a start. i just want to know how i keep it this way. you know like what i can do tomorrow. tomorrow he is in only my spanish class but the day after that he is in my spanish and art class so what can i do then? it felt so good when he finally talked to me and i want him to do it agin!!! so what can i do!! thankyou to everyone!!

2006-10-02 15:34:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am more romantic than my boyfriend will this turn him off

2006-10-02 15:33:32 · 4 answers · asked by sassy s 2 in Singles & Dating

and how do u know you found it

2006-10-02 15:33:16 · 11 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I spent most of mine fantasizing about poster22 and jizzmopper and the ocasional thought of that tea bag me? guy crossed my mind. I hardly got any work done so when I get there in the morning I will have twice the work to finish which means I won't be on here screwing off much. I'm really tired...how about you guys???

2006-10-02 15:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a couple weeks ago and I liked him instantly. We spoke a lot and basically the next time I went out with our mutual acquaintance and him. During the evening he comes up to me, grabs me, and says he wants to make out with me. Somehow he ends up going down on me, but I tell him to stop because I'm a virgin. We ened up talking a lot, as we both just got out of long-term relationships and both still have feelings for our ex's.

Two days he calls me and he tells me the other night was surreal and that he wants to talk to me more. We basically speak for an hour on the phone and then 2 days after that, i see him on campus and we talk while he's at the busstop.

Three hours after that, he texts me asking when I want to hang out next. The next day I call him back, and he invites me to a party with him and his friends. I go, and then we leave together. We ended up making out and he spends the night in my apartment, but we don't have sex nor do we cuddle. (I'm still a virgin...)

2006-10-02 15:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wanna have a good time, and not worry about family, why is it so important? is this going to bite me in the *** later in life??

2006-10-02 15:32:31 · 4 answers · asked by BlackEM2 2 in Family

2006-10-02 15:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by jim s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and by jealous I mean asking him where he is going and who is going there, and getting pissed off when he talks about past relationships?
what is more attractive of a girl? an Easygoing girl?

2006-10-02 15:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What? Never had one madam. Poor you.

2006-10-02 15:31:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been 11 months since I started seeing this guy. In the meantime, we've had a couple short "breaks". The thing is, I've known he was pretty jealous from the beginning, but this time around is way different. He doesn't want me talking to guys (not even my old guy friends who I've known for years), doesn't want me wearing certain things, always has to have the last word, pretty much makes the decisions about having a kid, etc. I know for a fact that he's pretty insecure, but it's like his "love" is suffocating me lately. The other day we had a talk about kids and stuff, and he says I'm gonna have his kid no matter what I say, one way or another, blah blah blah. When things don't go his way, he ignores me and tells me I got him out of a good mood. I don't wanna lose him, but somehow I think his behavior is making me push him away. Nothing's really equal either. He has chick friends but orders my guy friends away. Help!? What do I do?

2006-10-02 15:31:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's been 11 months since I started seeing this guy. In the meantime, we've had a couple short "breaks". The thing is, I've known he was pretty jealous from the beginning, but this time around is way different. He doesn't want me talking to guys (not even my old guy friends who I've known for years), doesn't want me wearing certain things, always has to have the last word, pretty much makes the decisions about having a kid, etc. I know for a fact that he's pretty insecure, but it's like his "love" is suffocating me lately. The other day we had a talk about kids and stuff, and he says I'm gonna have his kid no matter what I say, one way or another, blah blah blah. When things don't go his way, he ignores me and tells me I got him out of a good mood. I don't wanna lose him, but somehow I think his behavior is making me push him away. Nothing's really equal either. He has chick friends but orders my guy friends away. Help!? What do I do?

2006-10-02 15:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women say im very confident and often ask me if im single. I am and im not interested in being a player. but it doesnt matter how confident or genuine i am, either her friend will do stuff to pull the girl away even though she has already admitted shes into me, or my freinds says so many useless things or acts odd - he bores her friend and so the friend pulls the other girl away! The uk dating scene is very hard and even though i meet women during the day and in pubs/clubs its so hardcore id have to give up my day job to be successful. Ive got my own life and i dont need a woman, but iwant a quality one... i realsie i may have to date a few before i find someone right for me. Im an attractive guy with a great life and a good job, but it seems almost impossible to make a connection in pubs/clubs over here. and if youve just met someone, the girl is often going to have to pick her friends over you, cause she just met you and has known them for ages.any ideas on how to be more successful?

2006-10-02 15:30:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend moved to a different state a year ago. Before she left she backstabbed me by lying, stealing etc. She left & after 4months i forgave her. A few months ago she visited for another friends birthday. My boyfriend, me, her and others went out together. After she left i was looking through my boyfriends phone and found a text from her saying she likes him and telling him she hopes it means something to him, even though she knew we were going out. I ignored it because she was in another state and i know that he loves me. She is also coming back in October for a concert and she arranged to stay at my boyfriends house without her or him telling me. and i discussd it with him and he said hed tell her he cant have her there. The worst thing is shes told me that shes moving back here and shes going back to our school and i know she will try and get close to my boyfriend. I cant trust her but my boyfriend doesnt see who she really is. how do i deal with this without the worst outcome?

2006-10-02 15:30:27 · 3 answers · asked by Peta M 1 in Friends

I really like this girl and i think she likes me too, but we are both really shy. I wanted to try to get her attention because I want to hint to her that I like her. Would smiling and waving to her while passing through the hall be a bad idea? If anyone has any better ideas it would be apreciated...

2006-10-02 15:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by skywalker151617176 1 in Singles & Dating

umm is it normal for your brother to like be desperate about girls? cuz hes 19 and hes really immature. Sometimes it seems like he hangs out with kids wayyy younger than him like my age(13). and its weird. hes reallly immature and he thinks he sooo cool with all this stuff my parents get for him. and he dosent appreciate any of it. he has like 2 cars that are gettting paint jobs and two mopeds annd hes going ot special classes for baseball and sstuff. he gets alot and he acts liek he dosent have anything. But when hes with his firends he brags soo much .and me and him have the same phone and he still says his is better, talk about immature!like today we were in the car and he didnt stop arguing with me on how my phone is gay and reatrded and i cant do anything. hes the one that teaches me. i was likee noooo. and i got himm soo mad he hit me in the jaw! but if i tell my mom she'll be like ohh stop it you two! i dont ever think hes gunna move on with his life.

2006-10-02 15:30:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am a young man 21 yrs old i like a young lady but she is 26 yrs old we both go to the same college is the age gap too much for it to work

2006-10-02 15:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by will d 1 in Singles & Dating

She said she does not think she can call it off. She just graduated from Colombia and shes training to be a nurse. She also has feelings for women. I told her to take a break for a month and see if they can live together again. She still loves him and wants to have his kids. What should she do to minimize the damage for him, whom shes worried most about.

2006-10-02 15:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by Gary 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 15:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by juiceman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love someone but he had a problems and bad stitutions with his family i love him very much and he loves me alose but he can't marry me now .. he told me he is going to engage me after he finish studing after 2 years i told him dat im goona ait him because i love him .. am i right or wrong ???

2006-10-02 15:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by pink rose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my ex broke up last year, but he now dates someone at the age of 15 and he's 30, what should i do about it?and now they have a child together.When i lost 6 of his children.should i worry about it ? or should i forget about him dating a 15 year old?IS THIS LEGAL?

2006-10-02 15:26:54 · 22 answers · asked by thickness 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her ex that she is still in love wit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He might likes me back but i dont want to hurt her but i harly ever date and i really like him

2006-10-02 15:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, so I have this friend. She is a bit tomboyish and somewhat nerdy that has this fierce temper. Like, everyday at lunch, there is this obnoxious boy, and he bullies/teases her, like calling her "married to a hooker" and harsh stuff like that.

Then, when she reaches to the point, she can't stand it, she would yell (and she really YELLS) or cusses, throws his food at him, throw her food at him, or cause a racket, etc.

I keep on telling her, that boy is all bark and no bite. I tell her to ignore them. I tell her it's a waste of time.

But she just goes and doesn't listen to me. It's really embaressing to me, my friends, and sometimes leads to trouble. Sometimes, I wish I could just yell at her and say that she's acting like a child. Is there a possible way I could tell her to stop in strong words, since she doesn't listen to what I say.

2006-10-02 15:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, a few weeks ago she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. The other week she told me I would have to do all the housework for her before she gives me anything (we don't even live together). I am affraid what she will make me do next. I would die if we ever broke up the trouble is she knows it too. Any advice? I do love it when a woman controls me but now I am wishing I had set some limits in the beginning.

2006-10-02 15:24:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean no one, i havent talked to my brother in months

2006-10-02 15:24:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been dating this man for 1.5 year and we plan to get married next year. i was wondering since we have more than 30 year gap, what must i be aware of?? and also we come from different cultural background. I m from asia and he is from america

2006-10-02 15:23:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me. We lived together and When she left me I went nuts. I tried everythig to get her back. I gave her cards and flowers, I told her how much I loved her and I would do anythig to get her back. I called her all the time.
I tried so hard that she told me to leave her alone and she would put out a restraining order on me, her parents asked me to leave her alone also. So Now I have no choice. (God I love her so much). Now I feel like I will never hear from her again, because I have left a bad impression.
Please tell me if this will work. If I leave town and do not contact her for six (6) months, than I come back to town after everyone has calmed down, and start going to her church, and places she will see me. I will not talk to her , I will just let her know I am there.
Will this work, will she talk to me than and maybe go out again.?

2006-10-02 15:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Singles & Dating