umm is it normal for your brother to like be desperate about girls? cuz hes 19 and hes really immature. Sometimes it seems like he hangs out with kids wayyy younger than him like my age(13). and its weird. hes reallly immature and he thinks he sooo cool with all this stuff my parents get for him. and he dosent appreciate any of it. he has like 2 cars that are gettting paint jobs and two mopeds annd hes going ot special classes for baseball and sstuff. he gets alot and he acts liek he dosent have anything. But when hes with his firends he brags soo much .and me and him have the same phone and he still says his is better, talk about immature!like today we were in the car and he didnt stop arguing with me on how my phone is gay and reatrded and i cant do anything. hes the one that teaches me. i was likee noooo. and i got himm soo mad he hit me in the jaw! but if i tell my mom she'll be like ohh stop it you two! i dont ever think hes gunna move on with his life.
2006-10-02 15:30:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your right he is immature. And a spoiled brat. Maybe it's time you spend a few days away from your brother at a friends house (or lock your bedroom door and don't let him in). thats really immature for 19, dont think he'll grow out of it. tell him to go to college/university- get him out of the house
2006-10-02 15:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hanging with kids age 13 and acting as you say he does...it may be possible that his emotional maturity level is that of a 13 year old. Remember just because a person has physically matured at age 19 does not mean they are emotionally or mentally of the same maturity level! In todays world with so many pressures, it is common to see young people regressing emotionally to younger teen years. It is sort of a subconscious way of trying to hold on to their youth. He may be afraid of adult responsibilities or of growing up in general. Try to talk with him and get into his world. He may need a good, loving support person right now but be afraid of asking for one. Love him, support him and try to mentor to him.
2006-10-02 22:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shayna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to prove that you are more mature than your brother try not letting him get on your nerves. If you can show him that you respect him for whatever good there is in him (there is some, I promise, just sometimes you have to look REALLY hard) and that you are too cool to bother with hating him, then you really will be way cooler and more mature than he is. You also might find out that you like eachother. Good luck
2006-10-02 22:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by cedar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister is exactly like that. She has won Miss Slidell (pageant in Louisiana) and is gorgeous and gets everything she wants. i always complain to my mom about it, but she says I'm being ridiculous. all you can really do is just ignore your brother's immaturity. when he brags, just be like "oh really! well...." and brag about something that YOU did, or have or something. as for going with 13 year olds, he's obviously desperate, and that's another thing you can brag about. ask him if hes met your friend and maybe they can hook up,and do it in front of your mom. that will most likely embarrass him, and maybe he'll realize that its pathetic. when he says that something he has is better, and you have the same things, just agree with him and maybe ask him to teach you some things on how to make it cooler. just play mind games with him to get him mad. i do that with my sister. lol
2006-10-02 22:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by lexiloo54321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just tell him this. Spread rumours about. i.e. He is a homosexual. Smash his phone and throw it in your swimming pool. I'm sure you have one. You seem like a rich family who has everything that they want. He will never change now. You'll probabally end up like that as well. Try to be nice and not a spoilt little rich kid.
2006-10-02 22:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh true he does sound immature but there might be reasons for him thinking and doing things like that
as they always say girls are always more mature then males and hes probably hasnt matured yet just give him time and everything would work out
2006-10-03 03:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by mzdunnoanyfin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOUR BROTHER IS NOT YET SURE OF WHO HE IS, OR WHAT HE WANTS. DID YOU EVER THINK THAT MAYBE HE HANGS OUT WITH PEOPLE YOUNGER THAN HIM BECAUSE THE PEOPLE HIS AGE TREAT HIM BAD, OR MAYBE THEY DON'T WANT TO BE AROUND HIM BECAUSE HE ACTS LIKE HE IS BETTER THAN THEM. IT IS NORMAL FOR SOME GUYS TO BE DESPERATE ABOUT GIRLS, MOST GUYS ARE BUT THEY JUST DON'T SHOW IT! BELIEVE ME, NO MATTER HOW MUCH OLDER YOU GUYS GET, HE WILL ALWAYS TREAT YOU THIS WAY BECAUSE YOU ARE HIS LITTLE SISTER, THIS IS HOW HE EXPRESSES HIS LOVE FOR YOU!
2006-10-02 22:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by sexyblackmomba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that jerk to knock it off now. tell him strongly and forcefully to cut it out. hes being an @$$ so tell him that! if he atempts to hurt you. go tell someone who is an adult like a teacher or a relitive and get them to whitness for you. but dont say anything back or hit back because that will be used against you. good luck
2006-10-02 23:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by i am the dream u r the dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would punch him in the face. I would ignore him. He probably gets a kick out of it.
2006-10-02 22:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by laynestatezny@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the hitler method in desperate situations!!!
2006-10-02 22:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ha Ha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋