My friend moved to a different state a year ago. Before she left she backstabbed me by lying, stealing etc. She left & after 4months i forgave her. A few months ago she visited for another friends birthday. My boyfriend, me, her and others went out together. After she left i was looking through my boyfriends phone and found a text from her saying she likes him and telling him she hopes it means something to him, even though she knew we were going out. I ignored it because she was in another state and i know that he loves me. She is also coming back in October for a concert and she arranged to stay at my boyfriends house without her or him telling me. and i discussd it with him and he said hed tell her he cant have her there. The worst thing is shes told me that shes moving back here and shes going back to our school and i know she will try and get close to my boyfriend. I cant trust her but my boyfriend doesnt see who she really is. how do i deal with this without the worst outcome?
2006-10-02 15:30:27 · 3 answers · asked by Peta M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your boyfriend this girl is bad news and if he has any thoughts of being with her, he can kiss this relationship goodbye. She's not the friend you think she is.
2006-10-02 15:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, that's really hard!! I say you talk to your boyfriend about her and also tell that girl to stop hitting on your boyfriend. Or better yet, have HIM tell her to stop bothering him. It will mean more if he talks to her about it. And besides, even if she does go to your school you might not even see her very much. And if you do, try to keep your distance from her-unless you gotta work with her on a project or something.
If your boyfriend REALLY loves you and cares about you then he will believe you and he will do his best to stay true to you. If he doesn't, no big deal, he probably wasn't worth it anyway.
2006-10-02 15:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your BF arranged to let her stay at his place without telling you and he also knows that she likes him, I would consider that suspicous. I'd dump my boyfriend for that. He can't be dishonest and trustworthy at the same time. As for the "friend," she's not your friend. Learn you lesson from that and don't correspond with her anymore.
2006-10-02 15:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋