I met a guy a couple weeks ago and I liked him instantly. We spoke a lot and basically the next time I went out with our mutual acquaintance and him. During the evening he comes up to me, grabs me, and says he wants to make out with me. Somehow he ends up going down on me, but I tell him to stop because I'm a virgin. We ened up talking a lot, as we both just got out of long-term relationships and both still have feelings for our ex's.
Two days he calls me and he tells me the other night was surreal and that he wants to talk to me more. We basically speak for an hour on the phone and then 2 days after that, i see him on campus and we talk while he's at the busstop.
Three hours after that, he texts me asking when I want to hang out next. The next day I call him back, and he invites me to a party with him and his friends. I go, and then we leave together. We ended up making out and he spends the night in my apartment, but we don't have sex nor do we cuddle. (I'm still a virgin...)
2006-10-02 15:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next morning he hugs me and then leaves. He calls me that same evening because he felt bad he said. He wanted to be able to trust me, but he felt I was messing with him or wanted to hurt him.
2006-10-02 15:33:40 · update #1
He always accuses me of screwing with people's heads, and it just confuses me sometimes. Yeah, I have fun, but still.
Then I went out with my guy friend to dinner, and he asks me how cute my guy friend is and what he looks like. He asks if I like him.
And then, he tells me that he doesn't want a relationship.
I called him back and asked him why he's always questioning my motives, or why he thinks I'm messing with him. He says he wants to trust me. And then he says we will talk soon, over coffee or whatnot.
What is going on?
We both date others; we don't want relationships, we fool around, but then he asks if I want to hurt him or if he can trust me
2006-10-02 15:35:10 · update #2
Ok, and then he calls me because he thinks I'm still in a relationship with my ex, and then he says "we shouldn't do anything physical." Yet he always makes the moves first. He always tries to kiss me, etc.
Idon't mind not being in a relationship with him, but I'm saying....why does he tell me he doesn't want a relationship then question who I'm going out with , and my intentions with him? Why does he think I'm f*cking with his head?
2006-10-02 15:39:40 · update #3
PEOPLE: I dated my ex for 5 years and I'm still a virgin. Trust me, I won't have sex with this guy.
2006-10-02 15:40:29 · update #4
Run run run. This Man is after your virginity! He wants sympathy now and wants you to feel sorry and like he's the goody good guy he thinks you want. so, run and stay away from him. He is a player and the virgin thing is the biggest turn on for him he will play you any way to get it. Take my word and don't mess with this guy. Please!!!!
2006-10-02 15:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-02 15:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn Jeniy M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's pretty clear what he wants...the smart women can see past the mind games us guys play and are rewarded with life long repsectable partners and loving lasting marriages...the weak minded women who think screwing is the way too achieve everything end up in shambles and labeled basket case ***** who will do anything to appease men.
You get the picture now...if you constantly tag around with him your falling right into his trap and soon you will have no more 'virginity', he will leave and you will be an emotional and physical wreck...best advice would be to focus on school and stop wasting your time with sex craved lunatics.
2006-10-02 15:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, No method NO. It doesn't suggest the lady is gambling tough to get. If a man asks me out and I say no then that's what I imply. The different man is a jerk. You must have in no way went out with him. You knew what he used to be and also you received burned. But frequently each girl alive has performed the identical factor. Sad huh. If you favor (Harry) then pass out with him. If you do not then don't pass. Don't allow him strain you into going. But in the event you desire to move and do not desire to leap into a significant courting then simply inform him that. If he can pass out and realise that then if not anything else you get a well buddy out of it.
2016-08-29 08:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know how to answer this one. Guys are sooo confusing. I guess you guys just need some time apart to chill your heads off. Actions speaks louder so there's no point argue about anything when you alredy feel bad about him. Find someone who cares more to share that special moment with you.
2006-10-02 15:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Slevin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to go out, have fun, make out an then do the same thing with other girls. However, he doesn't seem to want you to do the same thing with other guys...... if I were you, I would consider that a problem.
2006-10-02 15:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by knowledgeisgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run and hide...this guy is wounded and and you haven't even fired the first shot...this guy needs to get over his "all women are going to hurt me like she did..." phobia and he just wants you to reassure him you wouldn't by having your first encounter with him...what a notch in his gun...
2006-10-02 15:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by bob r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋