2006-10-02 15:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by juiceman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we don't have any kids, she just has a medical condition and i'm not ready to be married and i don't have time anymore to deal with her illness. i just don't love her anymore. everyday i lie and tell her i love her but i don't mean it. i know this isn't her fault. she is not dying or anything, she just has constant female pain and is always complaining about it. when we got married, i knew about her medical condition but i just didn't know how much work it was going to be now. i just want a normal relationship with a woman, someone who isn't sick. my wife is faithful. i haven't cheated on her but i've just been hanging out with my co-worker who i'm really attracted to. i told my co-worker all about my marital problems and how i'm unhappy with my sex life. this woman is supportive of me and tells me to leave my wife becuase i don't love her anymore. we have been flirting. i really want to start a relationship with this girl. she is healthy after all.
2006-10-02 15:45:43 · update #1
You are a jerk, plain and simple. YOU can't handle her medical condition? Gosh, what could be worse than a significant other with a problem? Oh wait, what if you had the problem and she left you?
2006-10-02 16:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lobo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im curious as to why you would marry someone with a condition that you KNEW about when you agreed to have and to hold in sickness and in health, and i wonder what would happen if you left her and took up with any other woman and she later became ill and couldnt take care of your sexual needs, you will have to leave her too i guess, what if you married or lived with a new woman of your dreams and later became unable to perform and satisfy your new loved one, what if the loved one was honest caring loving and had lots in common with you, would you expect her to just up and leave? well anyway good luck, and karma is a mother f-----, so be careful
2006-10-02 23:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by legal help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to really think about that before you do it. Do you have good reason to leave? Is she faithful? IF you said yes to those then yes maybe you should leave. But be up front and honest with her the whole time about everything that is the inportant thing and dont give her false hope, tell her the truth up front! Good luck and pray about it.
2006-10-02 22:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Phyllis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I feel sorry for the wife whose husband decides how to leave her by asking 12 year olds on yahoo.
Maybe you need some therapy, some professional advice, speak to a friend, family member, a real person, your wife even???
Sad.
2006-10-02 22:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by dagmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about herbdoc.com (Richard M. Schulze) or to call 1-800-herbdoc and tell them about her health problems and take their advice. Give her $100 to spend on herself. Quit complaining about her to other people. Give it one month. I can absolutely guaranty that if you do this for your wife and then leave, she will have a better lover than you within six months.
2006-10-02 22:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF, I SUGGEST THAT YOU TALK TO YOUR WIFE ABOUT THE MATTER BEFORE YOU GO TELLING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO ANOTHER WOMAN. HAVEN'T YOU EVER HEARD OF THE TERM "DON'T OPEN ONE DOOR WITHOUT CLOSING THE OTHER?" PLEASE TALK TO YOUR WIFE, YOU HAVE TO LET HER DOWN EASY, ESPECIALLY WITH THE FACT THAT YOU KNEW ABOUT HER CONDITION BEFORE YOU MARRIED HER. YOU ALSO HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT WHEN GOT MARRIED, YOU AGREED TO STICK BY IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH. AS FAR AS THIS OTHER WOMAN THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN, DON'T START ANYTHING WITH HER, AND DON'T LISTEN TO HER ADVICE ABOUT LEAVING YOUR WIFE, APPARENTLY SHE IS NOT ONE TO CONSIDER OTHER PEOPLE FEELINGS SO TAKE HEED.
2006-10-02 22:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by sexyblackmomba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is be honest and let her know you are not happy. Do not leave her for another woman but leave her for you and you happiness. Remember if you leave some one for some one else that some one else will leave you for some one else
2006-10-02 22:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T THINK IT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOUR WIFES MEDICAL CONDITION. I THINK YOU ARE JUST SO DAMN SELFISH. YOU DON'T WANT A WIFE NOR DID YOU EVER. YOU WANTED SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND NOW THAT SHE'S THE ONE WHO NEEDS YOUR HELP, YOU'RE TOO DAMN BUSY TRYING TO F*U*K YOUR CO-WORKER! YOU NASTY AZZ. I KNOW YOU'LL ROT IN HELL.
2006-10-03 17:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by damienswife52805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important to you? Your wife, or the lady at the job that you're flirting with?
2006-10-02 22:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lavina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want to leave her? Kinda need some more info b4 i just answer fully,
2006-10-02 22:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋