My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me. We lived together and When she left me I went nuts. I tried everythig to get her back. I gave her cards and flowers, I told her how much I loved her and I would do anythig to get her back. I called her all the time.
I tried so hard that she told me to leave her alone and she would put out a restraining order on me, her parents asked me to leave her alone also. So Now I have no choice. (God I love her so much). Now I feel like I will never hear from her again, because I have left a bad impression.
Please tell me if this will work. If I leave town and do not contact her for six (6) months, than I come back to town after everyone has calmed down, and start going to her church, and places she will see me. I will not talk to her , I will just let her know I am there.
Will this work, will she talk to me than and maybe go out again.?
2006-10-02 15:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes she will .. Good Luck
2006-10-02 15:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I don't think she wants to see you any more. That's the bad news, the good news is that you will find someone else.
In your state of despair (for want of a word) you acted and showed yourself as desperate. This can be scary to your ex and her relatives. You should not go to her church or places that she will see you. This could start the whole "restraining" situation over again.
The plan you have started to create for yourself, the moving out of town etc. sounds like a good start. But to do this as a scheme to get her back is not the right reason for to move.
What makes you think you will want her in six months? You will change also, and it could be for the good. You could even meet someone new in that time. Start slowly and keep yourself busy with friends, family, work or school to keep your mind off your ex. The pain will subside a little each day and before you know it you could be in love with someone else.
2006-10-02 22:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might or it might not. She obviously doesn't want you though and as much as it hurts, why should you wait for her? You seem like a nice enough guy- take your time to heal and start looking into dating other girls. I'm sure you'll find someone who suits you better and WON'T leave and scream restraining order when you try to talk things out. Why would you hold out on someone that doesn't care about you? That's not love- because love goes both ways. Is it possible you're just in love with the idea of being in love and that after 2 years change is so scary you don't want to face it?
2006-10-02 22:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - It's called stalking! Just stop!
I know you only want girls to answer, but I cant sit back and watch this.
Looking at your last few posts it looks like you screwed this up pretty bad. You basically wussed out. Don't sweat it, we have all been there one time or another. Problem being, you can't fix this and the more you try the worse it will get. (trust me)
There is a lot more to this than I can write here and I know it will seem completely backwards, but your only option at this point is to walk away and move on with your life (without her). Go back to hanging out with your friends and doing the stuff that makes you...you.
2006-10-03 00:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by nonamephx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax and chill out. You can't make someone love you or want you. I don't think that leaving town for 6 months, and trying to reinsert yourself into her life is something you should
do. I think you should let it go and move on with your life. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you do you?
If she wants to contact you sometime down the road, maybe she will, but I wouldn't count on it. The ball is in her court. I wouldn't hold my breath hoping this girl is going to come around.
2006-10-02 22:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. it will make her think u are stocking her. I think the best thing to do is move on i know this is not what u want to hear but u are just driving ur self crazy. My ex cheated on me and i love him still but it don't make things any better ur not hurting her just ur self. I know it hurts like hell i know i still do but don't let it get to u . I know sooner then u think she will be in ur pass. So hold on and hang in there
2006-10-02 22:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by darkpirateprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...sounds almost exactly like my situation...exactly...it sounds like you are so desperate and that she just doesnt care but im the same. i need some answers to this too...or is she done and would it do nothing other that waste my life
2006-10-02 22:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋