Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

2006-09-29 19:42:54 · 12 answers · asked by X 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He studies multi-media design at tafe, he doesn'r drink alcoholl but he is into the latest electronic gadgets,

2006-09-29 19:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 19:42:26 · 2 answers · asked by Mylapore Mani 3 in Friends

iAM A 17 YEAR OLD MALE TENNAGER late these days i've been having wet dreams i just wanted if this continues wil i run ouit of sperm?

2006-09-29 19:40:01 · 19 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

I talked to my ex finally and he doesn’t want to get back with me, he told me there wasn’t any chance we’d get back together ever again, and he thought I understood it was just sex and he agrees we shouldn’t have sex anymore. I told him we couldn’t talk anymore either, and I am so sad and devastated. I really don’t know what to with myself right now. I am so hurt by him. I don’t want to say he lead me on but how could he move on so fast? Our relationship ended 2 weeks ago and he already says he’s back to normal and can date other people. To be honest I don’t know why he doesn’t love me and he says he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. I guess it’s hard when im crying over the phone, but still I wish he’d be honest instead of beating around the bush. Why do I love him so much if he doesn’t love me in return? How can I allow myself these feelings when they are not returned? I don’t know what to do to move on and I feel I may never get over him. I might be able to finally function normally, but I’ll never get over him. He says he loved me at one time in our relationship but I think he’s lying. How could he and be fine now? He says his love for me was different. Why does he hurt me so bad? I told him we can’t talk anymore and he said ok that’s fine. He said I’m good in bed and I said maybe we can just be friends and talk occasionally but not sleep with each other, and he said no. Apparently he just wanted sex. He said if he wasn’t benefiting from hearing about me then why would he talk to me? Why is he such an asshole? I am so traumatized and I don’t know when I’ll trust again. We’ve broken up so many times and I’ve fallen into a deep depression many times, but right now I am beside myself with sadness. .I know its for real now and all I can see now is a future without him and it seems so depressing to know I’ll have to move on only because HE didn’t want ME. It wouldn’t be that way if he had just wanted me and not been so difficult. Who does he think he is anyway? He will never find another girl like me, he won’t get a girl as beautiful as me to love him this much. Why do you guys let a good thing go? *tears* * tears* *tears streaming down my cheek*.

2006-09-29 19:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

I had sex a cpl hours ago with a guy that I dated a few yrs ago. He was the love of my life. The thing is, now he has a g/f and a little boy by her. They we're living together but right now they're not do to circumstances. I know it was wrong but when I got into his arms, it felt so natural. He calls me all the time and my heart is breaking. I always plan to tell him that i can't have anything to do with him but once I talk to him, the words just won't come out. This time it went all the way. I'm so confused!!!!

2006-09-29 19:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by igotsaprob 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 19:37:44 · 15 answers · asked by Christine M 2 in Friends

he is the only one i have ever loved.we were never together because he had a gf i had a bf at the time and because we were all friends we just didnt take it any further than to tell eachother how special we were to each other.he moved because it was to hard for us not being able to be with each other.it hurt me so much knowing i was probably not gonna see him again.and its been 9 years since that.but i still love him.i am married now and i cant love my husband the way i want to because deep inside me,i am still in love with him.and sometimes even compare my husband to him, like he would never do this to me,or he would do it this way instead.all i have from him is a kiss.a good bye kiss.i dont think im ever gonna find him to find out if he still loves me. and he probably dont even remember me.but i want to be able to love my husnband the way i love him.why am i still in love with him anyway?i believe he is my soulmate,and im still sad that we could never be together.how to deal with it

2006-09-29 19:37:14 · 14 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Singles & Dating

spent last 7 days together at his request. He was the "pursuer", "the sayer." not me, now won't return a call. and i know he can't find anyone better that me.

2006-09-29 19:36:38 · 8 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

spent last 7 days together at his request. He was the "pursuer", "the sayer." not me, now won't return a call. and i know he can't find anyone better that me.

2006-09-29 19:35:47 · 5 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

honest and just go without cheating and having a guy waiting?

2006-09-29 19:35:23 · 12 answers · asked by al p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 19:34:23 · 7 answers · asked by X 3 in Marriage & Divorce

On a number from 1 - 10 how sad is it that am 5'0 and 14? I give myself a 1.

2006-09-29 19:31:14 · 34 answers · asked by Hey 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this gal, kinda a blind date thing.. 3 minutes later she is trying to get in my pants.. 2hours later after our date she is on my bed playin with herself and begging me to give it to her...? this happens alot... i didn't trust her so i didn't do the deed...? who would not be scared by this, with all the std's out there?

2006-09-29 19:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by terryshawn1975 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 19:30:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl friend lives in Vermont because she goes to school there. I love this girl more than sight. And even though I visit her every other weekend I miss her more than the homeless miss food, but when she left she wanted to "leave it open". I caved because I don't want to lose her. She has promised she wont be "exclusive" with anyone but me after she comes home (in four years). She IS a good girl and says she just wants to "experience life". Of course I'm jealous of EVERYONE in Vermont, but I want to stay with her no matter what. If she'd have it; I'd marry her. Do you think I'm in for serious heartbreak? I'm going to stick by no matter what, and I know what I think. But I just wanted some 3rd person POVs. Thanks for any help.

2006-09-29 19:29:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 19:27:41 · 26 answers · asked by klallen197902 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in a group, and he is friends with this girl in his group. they talked on the phone a couple a times a week, until I said I didn't like it. I got the cell phone bill and I found out they talk about 3 to 4 times a week and text messaged eachother a couple of times. I called her and was nice and told her not to do it again, it bothered me and she denied it, My husband told me they just talk about what goes on in group (AA), and that he showed her how to text message. But he told me that he wouldn't call her and when I checked there were no calls to her, he erased them. I say he had an affair with her, because why if nothing was going on, would she lie and get mad at me? He says I making more out of this than I should. What do you think?

2006-09-29 19:27:09 · 22 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf is sick and he has a 2 year old and twins his ex the 2 year olds mom heard that her son was sick and jon got pissed off because she blames him for ezekeil being sick.even thought it is his fault.so she ends up helping him out and they seem to have a love/ hate relationship.jons really clumsy and once he fell out my apt window and was hanging upside down from the fire escape laughing.his big brothe whos 12 years older then him came by to halp take care of his twins.the problem is hes just like jon but more educated with kids and almost twince as clumsy.when jons ex came in with soup she "accidently spilled some on him" he got pissed off and started yelling in italian and she starts yelling in spanish.then his brother comes in and does a belly flop on the bed and the rest of the soup spills.i dont know if i should leave the 3 of them alone with 3 kids there.because there all pretty much the same and sometimes the 2 year old acts better.

2006-09-29 19:25:49 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 19:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 19:23:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 21 and have been sexual active for sometime now... I have been with my boyfriend for a year and something now. I was wondering... How can I get over being so shy when it comes to getting naked around him. He loves me and tells me Im sexy and he loves every inch of me. But I still run and cover up ect. .. Also, could this lead to me not claimaxing during sex?

2006-09-29 19:21:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 19:21:03 · 27 answers · asked by X 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tooo many people on this system instead of dating and meeting people (real human beings) not the computer or the television.

2006-09-29 19:19:47 · 27 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I retitled this thread, as I think it would attract more attention.

I am very rarely attracted to guys both physically and mentally but I met a guy I am attracted to both ways. However, he has a high chance of having herpes as his ex had it.

What should I do? My stepdad told me I should stop talking to him altogether as I am attracted to him, but I seriously rarely am attracted to guys both ways. Should I try to just be friends with him or what?

2006-09-29 19:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by what? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 19:18:00 · 25 answers · asked by jeter's gal 3 in Weddings

a different type; if he really liked her personality...I mean...does that really happen???

2006-09-29 19:17:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since i can remember i never got out of my house, i mean my parents never took me anywhere cuz we were really poor, u know how parents take their kids to the park or to do something fun... well my parents never did, we moved around and the only friends i had were lost, now im 19 and i just finished college, i skiped some years since i had nothing to do but to study... well anywho this is why i need help... i have no friends at all and i never go out, my parents passed away couple years back and till right now i realised that im not needed here, i mean i wish i would feel wanted or needed, i have a good job and a big house but whats all the riches when u dont have anyn one to share your failures with?

2006-09-29 19:17:44 · 16 answers · asked by Oscar 5 in Family

i have been thinking when girls say looks don't matter. It all starts because of looks because they wont look or be interested in you unless they find you attractive. Rarly does someone choose another because of who they are. Everyone says personality comes first but from what i have it starts with looks. just wonderin if anyone else has realized that.

2006-09-29 19:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by blackhawks29 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone. I would just like to thank you all in advance for reading this and giving me any advice you have.

For starters I've been talking to this guy on the internet for 6 years. We met through a game and immediately we swapped photos. I never gave him the right one and purposely went to protect myself, and gave him a picture of someone that wasnt me.

We've been friends the whole time and it hasnt raised any problems. Lately though he has been wanting to come see me and visit. I'm beginning to develop feelings for him and I know its weird, lets try to avoid calling me a freak k? Thnx. Anyways, he wants to come see me and I dont know how I can tell him I lied about the picture and thats not really me. But hey.. I'd still like you to come see me.

Any ideas? I thought about telling him straight-up then signing off cause I'm a wuss, leaving a journal entry he can read then hide.. or just telling him he cant because I'm afraid of what would happen.

2006-09-29 19:15:35 · 14 answers · asked by Midnghtangls 2 in Singles & Dating