2006-09-29 19:37:44 · 15 answers · asked by Christine M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There must be something lacking in your relationship with your hubby. And you find it in your hubby's best friend.
What a friend did for me and my wife is to make a separate list of what we want in a life partner. After seeing what my wife wants in a "Super Hubby", my life goal is to BE this person, and likewise, my wife started to be more accomodating in many areas, wanting to be the "Super Wife" I want.
Of cos there will be no perfect somebody in this world, so learn to accept it sometimes. Feeling that your hubby's best friend is hot is fine, but tasting this forbidden fruit would destroy everything you have got!
2006-09-29 19:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by maximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do absolutely nothing about it! Close your eyes, count up to a million, do anything that helps to remember this could ruin your marriage. Stick with good old hubby, am sure he's hot too if his buddy is!!! Good luck!
2006-09-30 02:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nyinawagikuri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my hubbys brother!!!! First I thought about why I liked him. Then i thought about the things I didn't like about him. I focused on those things and I also prayed that I would no longer feel that way about him and all that seemed to help!
2006-09-30 02:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by frances d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree w.T Mack's advice. If not catholic, and the Pope doesn't work for you,try any spiritual book you believe in or might believe in...stay away from the guy like the plaque do not go near this it is a disaster waiting to happen Married means married. No playing aorund unles you get unmarried.Dont lower yourself
2006-09-30 02:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by FoudaFaFa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your hubby. I tell my man all the time that one of his friends is hot. We have open communication. I'm not doing anything with his friend but I have no problem telling my man about it.
2006-09-30 02:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep that thought well and truly to yourself. he is your BEST MATES husband. that is a no go area Hun full stop. you can think it sure, but never act upon it. don't put yourself in a position where anything might happen, the only one who will lose out is you and you hurt two people along the way one for which trusted you.
2006-09-30 02:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'l look for way to be with him alone and be hot as he could do with out informing my hubby.....
2006-09-30 02:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a cold shower and look at pictures of the Pope for hours,that should kill the urge.
2006-09-30 02:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the DATE MOVIE by the wayans brothers.
Its funny and it deals with that issue
2006-09-30 02:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the difference between fantasy and reality.
2006-09-30 02:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋