honest and just go without cheating and having a guy waiting?
2006-09-29 19:35:23 · 12 answers · asked by al p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they are tramps that use a guy for what they can get and move on. I like the people that say"guys do it too" like that makes it better. Like women who say "yeah I cheated but not that much"
2006-09-29 21:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by homo.jesus 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Waiting In The Wing
2016-12-10 16:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you are generalizing and that's not fair......not all women have someone waiting in the wings, as you say, but if they do it's probably because it makes it easier for them to get out of the marriage, relationship or friendship. This is not just or a good thing to do, but human nature plays alot. We are mating creatures...............and sometimes morals just don't come into play with human nature.
I honestly believe that if we would all be honest from the get go and accept each other........we'd be much better off. Sure you feel totally betrayed. Have you been true to yourself ?
2006-09-29 19:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not just women, men do it too. The problem is with themselves. They don't have a strong identity and thus try to find it in someone else. They can't be alone because their relationship IS their identity. What they do find eventually though is that they can't run from themselves. The person is different, but the situation and the problems are the same. The same issues that caused them to leave their last spouse are present in the new relationship.
2006-09-29 21:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do that. Many women do it because they don't want to be alone or someone just happens to catch their eye and before they know it they have another significant other (not that it is right). Also, many women who cheat, do so because their bf/husband has done some pretty messed up stuff (verbal, emotional, physical abuse, cheating, etc) so they are seeking comfort, love, affection, etc from someone else. This isn't an excuse for cheating - because there really isn't an excuse, but those are all reasons why people cheat.
2006-09-29 19:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leaving any relationship is never easy, it is always easier to leave when you have someone waiting, and that goes for guys as well. It doesn't mean that cheating is right, it just means that dating without a ring on your finger means that your relationship is not all that serious. Once you get a ring on your finger, and a real commitment is made, than cheating and playing more than one guy/girl is out of the question. Once you find that right person, you are not willing to risk loosing them, until then dating is just a way to find out what qualities you are looking for in a lifetime partner. Unfortunately breaking up goes hand in hand with dating, it is never easy, but necessary in order to find that special someone.
2006-09-29 20:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry chum, yet this female became into in that relationship on a similar time as you have been nonetheless jointly. She acted like yet did not incredibly love you. i realize it is tough in case you have been betrayed like this exceedingly after 3 years. while i became into youthful my lady of two years informed me she had to work out people while college all started. nicely, the 1st day of faculty she became into with this different guy and that that they have been seeing one yet another at the back of my back. i became into taken aback and somewhat harm yet as days glided by utilising, i became into waiting to flow on and it somewhat is precisely what you need to do. thankfully, for me I had a great circle of acquaintances on the time and that did help incredibly.
2016-12-15 17:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do the same Sh*#,
A lot of people don't have the balls to move on without having somethere waiting to help get you through it. Even if they're the cause of it too
2006-09-29 19:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by powerofconviction 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
many do this so that they arent alone when they are either dumped by the fellow that they was with and cant figure men out yet sad to think a woman would degrade her self in this way in my opion?
2006-09-29 20:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are too insecure... they would rather be unhappily married than alone. That's why I think woman cheat as much or more than men.
Just my thoughts....
2006-09-29 20:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋