I had sex a cpl hours ago with a guy that I dated a few yrs ago. He was the love of my life. The thing is, now he has a g/f and a little boy by her. They we're living together but right now they're not do to circumstances. I know it was wrong but when I got into his arms, it felt so natural. He calls me all the time and my heart is breaking. I always plan to tell him that i can't have anything to do with him but once I talk to him, the words just won't come out. This time it went all the way. I'm so confused!!!!
2006-09-29 19:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by igotsaprob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What you did wasn't necessarily wrong. You are single and can do what you want. What he did was wrong.
However, your feelings are too strong for this guy and just having sex with him isn't going to be enough for you. You will get hurt when he stays with his baby's mumma. You need to move on.
2006-09-29 19:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Feel like I shouldn't be answering anyone questions as my own head is all over the place but have so been where you are this morning.
It would the easiest thing in the world to tell you you are a fool and he he won't leave the g/f , but I guess you may aready know that even if you won't except it.
I had people tellin me the same thing I wouldn't listen - then one day I found the strength to walk away.
It hurt like hell but as the days past the hurt was replace with strenght - I went and got a part time job and started to have some fun..........He came sniffing weeks later but by then I had more respect for myself.
I remember him tellin me I would be back but as much as I wanted him - I knew it would be nothing more than it was.
Only you can decided what to do next sweetheart....but for the record it felt great in the end.
2006-09-30 02:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop what ur doin right now. It doesn't do good to you or that guy or other women......Just go out there n find a men that really loves u n not attached with anyone else.
2006-09-30 02:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you don't have a baby by him.
Sarah's answer is excellent. You did nothing wrong, only very unwise. Please leave him for someone who actually deserves you and doesn't betray their sworn life parner and child.
Or else he will do the same to you someday.
2006-09-30 02:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lay it out to him as to how you feel. And he needs to make a decision as to what he wants to do be with you or the girlfriend!
2006-09-30 02:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to decied who he is going to be with. Listen and accept his answer.
2006-09-30 02:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,you f**cked up but it's not the end of the world,just don't do it again.
2006-09-30 02:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are exactly on the same situation right now!!!!!...Believe me but it feels good!
2006-09-30 02:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so attatched. he has a ******* kid. your not gonna get back with him. dont be a whore.
2006-09-30 02:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by stoned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe.. dont feel guilty.. life s to live and enjoy.. so live and let live.. do wat ever u want.. enjoy wit him.. but tell him to concentrate more in his family
2006-09-30 02:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by king of hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋