i have been thinking when girls say looks don't matter. It all starts because of looks because they wont look or be interested in you unless they find you attractive. Rarly does someone choose another because of who they are. Everyone says personality comes first but from what i have it starts with looks. just wonderin if anyone else has realized that.
2006-09-29 19:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by blackhawks29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you were wondering i am not saying that looks make a relationship they just start it sometimes...its nice to see the reaction and answeres i am getting
2006-09-29 19:26:11 · update #1
Well, I guess it depends on the girl.
Some girls may say that looks don't matter when the opposite is true.
But I think that it is possible to be attracted to a man not because of his looks, but because of his personality.
Yes. Most of the time, it is usually physical attraction that causes you to notice someone else. I may walk into a room and see a few guys that I think are hot. But I never go after them. I am never really even interested in talking to them. They always (well, at least in my experience) are vain and more interested in the mirror/my breasts than in good conversation and/or in finding a connection.
I don't usually go for a guy until I know him.
I don't think that personality neccessarily comes first, but I do think that it is the deciding factor when it comes to relationships.
I think that personality is what keeps you interested.
Sure, his blue eyes and sparkly whites might get my attention.
But if he is as interesting/intelligent as a piece of cardboard, I'm going to look elsewhere.
2006-09-29 19:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Okay, interesting question. It really depends on the guy. In my opinion, if you are really in love, you have this way of looking at a person - it's hard to explain. It's like you can't see their flaws, no matter what they are. To you, they seem absolutely perfect. For instance, the girl I'm in love with - she, in my opinion, is the most beautiful person in the world. She isn't some tan, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, big-chested Playboy bunny, and yet I can't think of anyone I'd rather look at.
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i have been thinking when girls say looks don't matter. It all starts because of looks because they wont look or be interested in you unless they find you attractive. Rarly does someone choose another because of who they are. Everyone says personality comes first but from what i have it starts...
2015-08-24 17:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Reza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks is what catches the eye ,yes. But you know looks is not all that actually gets you hooked up with a person. You could be good looking & have a messed up attitude & that will make you UGLY. I can't speak for everyone but I do go beyond just that good looking thing.
2006-09-29 19:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you, initially you are going to rely on a person's attractiveness to catch your attention, but once you have their interest then a person's looks take a back seat and they'll need some other outstanding qualities to keep your attention. They say there is someone for everybody, good looking or not...I'd like to think that is true.
2006-09-29 19:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The initial attraction may be looks, but everyone has their own idea of what they're attracted too. Also, if you are at first attracted to someone, if their personality sucks, you do lose interest. On the other hand ,you can meet someone you're not initially attracted to and become attracted to them b/c of their personality after you get to know them...these are the relationships that last :)
2006-09-29 19:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course there has to be some sort of physical attraction there but i think it gets confused with they have to be drop dead gorgeous, or a hunk, the perfect man and the perfect women looks wise, exist only in magazines and a great photo editing program. yes initial attraction is one of the first things but you have to ask yourself when those looks go, whats left, that's why people say personality, sense of humor etc are more important, they will always be there when the looks are not, If your partner still has the ability to make you smile every day when your old and Grey of course that's more important.
2006-09-29 19:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you have every right to like who you like,but don't just go by looks either because everything that look good is not good,but that don't mean you have to settle for less either,because u at-least got to be attracted to this person!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 19:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by browneye_chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you said is true but at the end of the day you would like a person for who they are. Looks are nice but people are attracted to someone for their personality aswell not JUST looks.
2006-09-29 19:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by 12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when they tell you that.. it's because they just realized looks don't matter they didn't know it at first....
2006-09-29 19:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by ¥Captain_Random¥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋