Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

we live 70 miles away from him and the only time we see or hear from him is to see if we have any money he can borrow. The man didn't even call to tell his grand daughter happy birthday.how can we tell him he needs to come around for more than just money?

2006-09-22 08:01:16 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Family

Have a friend she is married. Her husband has a girl friend, (it's
suppose to be secret) but it ain't. So, what is the most tactful way
to let her know about this. He is lying to wife and girlfriend. She
is "supposed to not know about this". As a matter of principal,
girlfriend should know, but how. (wife does not want to be blamed
for the telling) just another innocent party. (Husband thinks no one
knows, is he naive)? He sort of married for G>C.. Wife has put up with it, cause she ain't suppose to know. but should be in the open....has hurt wife.... so it will hurt girl friend too... actually, the
best revenge would be for the 2 to get together....and "do a number on him"....would be a laugh. He thinks he 's so smart,
not letting the left hand know what the right hand in doing". it's
gonna catch up with him.. I know....

2006-09-22 08:00:36 · 15 answers · asked by Blanche M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The main thing that you find sexy in a person

2006-09-22 08:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was watching this show one morning and then i saw him i dont know his name but he reminds me of my ex husband i can get him off my mind i dream about him i don't know what to do i feel like iam going crazy.

2006-09-22 08:00:22 · 22 answers · asked by sexy_curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi i am 18 going to be 19 and just got married it was a spur of the moment thing i went with my bf of 2 months to vegas with some friends and at some point one of his friends said we were like a married couple and my bf just turned around and said why not get married right now and then we kind of did. This was a joke that was taken way too far. If you get married by Elvis in Vegas at a white chapel is it still legal when you get back to NJ?This happened a month ago and we are still really in love but after this we pretended like nothing happened.My parents cant stand him because he is 21 and italian not spanish like they wanted and his parents dont really like me because i am spanish and they want him to date Italian girls.We told them we were engaged after the trip to Vegas.

2006-09-22 07:59:24 · 23 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

more than 1 kid? I have dated but tired of dating. I have been divorced for almost ten years and I am ready to settle down. I have been told by my male friends that they would not get in a serious relationship with a woman with more than 1 kid. Their words are "too much baggage"
Hurt by their words.
Disgusted with stupidity
Tired of the bad guys
Not sure if current guy is good since he is younger
What is the truth to living single and alone?

2006-09-22 07:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Singles & Dating

no women ever sit on my lap, I mean if there are no seats, why should I get up and give my seat to a woman if she can just sit on my lap?

Are we as a society that afraid of physical contact?

2006-09-22 07:58:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 07:58:32 · 10 answers · asked by Mz. Chavis 1 in Family

person regarding your relationship.......I have been dating off and on this woman for a couple of years. I feel it and I know she feels it. But she is still hung up on her ex. I KNOW its time for me to address some things with her but I just dont know how to start it out. We met for lunch today and she was so excited telling me stuff she had done that I just didnt know how to lead into addressing us. The ex is supposed to come to town tonite and they will be off doing their thing. She claims she still has feelings for the ex, but is not IN love with her. I truly love this girl. I do not want to give her an ultimatum but theres got to be somewhere in between whats happening now and an ultimatum. Any suggestions on how to get the ball rolling......? I dont want to come across as weak and falling apart (even tho i feel that way) but I dont want to be an a** either.

2006-09-22 07:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need help with spanish

2006-09-22 07:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by jessica_loves_christian 1 in Friends

2006-09-22 07:57:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they are both good boys, and they both really like me

2006-09-22 07:57:18 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone who yells/curses or someone who is sarcastic and condescending?

2006-09-22 07:57:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If i was ever to have a kid with my Girlfriend will the baby have blue eyes,

I want my baby to have blue eyes but wouldnt mind obvously because its by baby. I have blue eyes and my girlfriend has dark eyes and her mom and dad have dark eyes to. i have blue eyes and my dad also has blue eyes my mom has green so is it possible that my baby can have blue eyes,

2006-09-22 07:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my wife but don't understand she don't have it. i have done every thing clean, cook , romance. and when we have time she sleeps

2006-09-22 07:57:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 50 christmas cards and I have no real address book. I have a Yahoo IM list and a Netscape ddress book with a handful of physical addresses and a gmail address book with no physical addresses. I have some friends with no email addresses. I need to make a master list of people I know and then obtain their physical addresses. Some of the people on my Yahoo IM list are outside of the USA.

2006-09-22 07:57:07 · 1 answers · asked by icu812 3 in Friends

Its hard for me to forget if my Sweetheart says something hurting and bad in the day it keeps me bothering all the time and when hes close to me i get very very angry and frustrated??
Please help with goood advise!!

2006-09-22 07:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by nisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. His son lives out of state and plans on moving closer to him when he gets more accomplished in money. We love eachother so much, but I will NEVER leave my home, and he knows that. Am I waiting to get hurt or does love find a way to be together? Im so confused...=(

2006-09-22 07:56:54 · 9 answers · asked by She 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 07:56:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Maybe Internet sites where the deadbeat parents are listed, services that can deliver something embarrassing to their jobs, (Post cards etc).

2006-09-22 07:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by cafferouge 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and my bf have been together 3 months and we have had sex a couple of times and i want to have sex with him again, how do i show it or do i just tell him?

2006-09-22 07:55:40 · 13 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been together for 5 years and married for six months. We have lived together pretty much since the beginning of our relationship. We have a 4 year old daughter. Soon after the honeymoon I noticed she really started pulling away. Before the wedding we were fighting pretty much non-stop. I'm assuming it was the stress of everything going on with the wedding (fears, emotions, doubt etc). When we got back virtually everything stopped on her end. No more initiation of any affection (kissing, hugging, sex, saying i love you). During our many conversations about it, to sum it up she wasn't happy. She didn't want to go to counseling, she just wanted to be left alone. We hadn't had sex since the honeymoon and for the last month I tested things and stopped giving her affection just to see her reaction. She wasn't bothered by it. I finally asked her if she was done with us and her answer was yes. We had been here before, but I feel she really means it this time.

2006-09-22 07:55:39 · 15 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and is there anything as if there's no trust.. there no love

2006-09-22 07:55:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been married 16 ½ years. We have 3 GREAT kids that I love. But there is a BIG problem (for me anyway) in the bedroom.
Without getting to graphic, things only happen in the bedroom maybe 1 or 2 times a month and have been that way since shortly after we got married. She is extremely conservative, I always want to try new things. She wont wear a teddy for me and I haven’t seen her naked in a long time.
I have talked to her (Many times) We have gone on romantic get always and dinners, flowers, doing things for her around the house, marriage counseling and she has done some other counseling also. You name it I have tried it. Things get better for a week or two but then goes back to the same thing. She wasn’t like this when we were dating.
I don’t think she is having an affair. It is becoming more and more of a problem for me to stay faithful.
But I really don’t want to get a divorce or leave my kids.
Am I just out of luck? Is this normal?

2006-09-22 07:55:11 · 30 answers · asked by flyboy_447 1 in Marriage & Divorce

also i can levitate and just now found out i can become invisible. all i had last night was a couple soco's, oh yeah and i had this dream i had an orgy with the golden girls.what do you think is up?

2006-09-22 07:54:00 · 2 answers · asked by Dr Phil 3 in Friends

2006-09-22 07:53:11 · 28 answers · asked by claire 5 in Singles & Dating

I recently found hardcore porn on my partners son computer(hes 15 )......should i grass him in to his mother so i can get a laugh or keep quiet and watch the porn when i want.....a tough dilemma

2006-09-22 07:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In the chinese culture, what is thier tradtitional view on love.. is love a dependence financial issue? Let me know all you chinese people out there!! Im very intersted in your culture!

2006-09-22 07:52:55 · 2 answers · asked by hopelessitaly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-09-22 07:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Mines was in my uncle's backyard by the pool. It was really nice!!! Where was ur wedding held at??? Was it what u wanted???

2006-09-22 07:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce