Its hard for me to forget if my Sweetheart says something hurting and bad in the day it keeps me bothering all the time and when hes close to me i get very very angry and frustrated??
Please help with goood advise!!
2006-09-22 07:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by nisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand you. You are the type of person who is somewhat grudgeful, hard to forget and hurt very easily. Right? You need to understand yourself first, tell your sweetheart that you need time to get over it, (don't take too long) and he should understand. Another point of advice. Choose your battles, if it's miniscule, don't worry, it's the big stuff that counts. And if you feel frustrated or angry when he approaches you, you're only looking to make him feel unwanted and rejected.
2006-09-22 08:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by yes, it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God do I know how you feel - my husband was suffering from a mild depression - he was miserable - At night all of a sudden he would want to have sex. His barometer of the marriage was the sex and mine was how well we got on during the day.
Then we night comes and bed time I could not lower the walls - he wonders why - I have told him how I feel and he is being patient but what happens during the day can build some pretty thick walls.
From all the questions it looks like a lot of people are suffering with the same gaps in their marriages
2006-09-22 15:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOU MADE A BAD INVESTMENT.
YOU CAN DO BETTER.
SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED TO BE WITH WITH A GUY WHO WANTS TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD, NOT BAD. DUH.
2006-09-22 15:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋