i love my wife but don't understand she don't have it. i have done every thing clean, cook , romance. and when we have time she sleeps
2006-09-22 07:57:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is it depresstion? I would love my husband to help cleaning
2006-09-22 07:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be turned on just by my hubby doing some cleaning and cooking around here, lol....In all seriosness, she could very well have a medical problem, either physically or mentally, keeping her from being able to enjoy a sex life right now..Has she seen her doctor lately for an exam? Maybe that would be a start. Do you two have good communication? You need to talk to her, ask her about it and see if she will open up. She could be depressed too...nothing to be ashamed of, and a doctor can help matters with the right medication. Maybe she needs something spontaneous, take her on a trip or even to a local hotel for the nite...something out of the ordinary to re-ignite the inner passion. Do you have kids? If so, she might need a break from them. Some time just for her, to concentrate on herself. And lastly, do you perhaps "smother" her with your affection? Maybe it's too much..she feels too much pressure. If this is part of the problem...back off a little. Give her time to come to you when she desires it. I hope some of this might be helpful to you....Good luck!
2006-09-22 15:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
something is obviously bothering her.. depression, mid-life crisis, ... it could be a number of things. If you'v tried everything else to try and make her happy and she's still acting weird, there is something wrong, i suggest talking to her ONE ON ONE and drag it out of her, or maybe the two of you should consider marriage counseling.
Goodluck!
2006-09-22 15:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by brittypxo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about it. there's more to life than sex. it's not important. if you feel like you've just GOT to have it, do it yourself and leave her alone. there are 100s of other ways to show and receive "love" that she would appreciate a lot more (that would probably get you laid more too). Loose the sex focus and put the focus back where it belongs...on HER.
2006-09-22 15:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
too nice of a guy,, take her out to dinner, spend a night out at the movies and such,, just because you did the dishes doesnt mean her legs are going to open up and say take me big boy,
take her out,,,
2006-09-22 15:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have kids? take some of the emotional and physical job in the realtionship from her....
don't forget to ask ... after a year of marriage men stop asking for sex, don't know why....
2006-09-22 15:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.health.am/eng/libido/2.php
This will help you understand the many reasons women lose their libido. Find the reason for what's going on first, then talk to her about it.
2006-09-22 15:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by ticktock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HORMONE REPLACEMENT THERAPY?
2006-09-22 15:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋