and is there anything as if there's no trust.. there no love
2006-09-22 07:55:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't stick around to find out.
2006-09-22 07:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very sticky area..the guy may very well NOT cheat again. But if you don't have trust in a relationship, you don't have a relationship. If you want to work things out with him, then HE is going to have to be extremely patient with you until he EARNS your trust back. I would imagine that he'll become frustrated after so long when he thinks it's been long enough and you should be trusting him again, but remember, you were done wrong, you have every right to up and leave the relationship as it is, and things are now being done on YOUR timetable. Don't get confused on being in love with that person, and being in love with the THOUGHT of that person. If this guy is causing you more pain than joy, you may want to examine whether it's really him that you love, or are you in love with who you THINK he is?
2006-09-22 08:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Butters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think about the circumstances. did he sleep with another girl...or just kiss her? alot of people will say, once a cheater, always a cheater. but personally i believe that mistakes can happen, and he could stil love you. also there are guys out there that will continue to lie to you and cheat on you after you take them back because the way they see it, you will take them back if they just apoligize and tell you that they love you. be careful with what you believe. sometimes your love for someone can blind you from seeing the truth. talk to close friends who know both u and your man. also if there is no trust, there is no hope for a future. if you are not ever going to be able to let it go or forgive him...there's no reason u should stay together
2006-09-22 08:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a relationship were he cheated on me. He told me how much he loved me and would never do it again, well he did! Not only that, but I found out that the gilr he was engaged to before me, he cheated on her too, thats why they broke it off. If you let him get away with it, he will think that he can keep doing it, but just be more careful!
2006-09-22 07:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by bannana_bean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never trust a guy that cheated. There is love, but without trust, there isn't a good relationship.
2006-09-22 07:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy cheats on you, he has proven himself to be a total liar and cheater. Who cares if he "loves" you-- Why would you want him?
How could you kiss him, not knowing where his mouth has been? How could you hold his hand, wondering where his fingers have been? How could you be intimate with him, knowing where he's stuck it? How could you do anything with him, wondering he said or did the same with the skank he cheated with?
He ruined it by cheating, and the price he has to pay is NOT HAVING YOU!
2006-09-22 07:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you really love him but he decided in his head before he cheated on you that it was a risk he was going to take. witch means he cares about you but if he lost you he would die over it. sorry Hun you need to get out if you give a second chance there will always be a huge risk that he would do it again and you don't want that hanging over you relationship. you want to feel safe in his arms you want to know that he is your escape when things get rough not the very thing that is hurting you. you deserve better and there is better out there you just need to take the leep and go for it
good luck
2006-09-22 08:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat, always a cheat. He may love you but he is not in love with you or he wouldn't have cheated. Get out now.
2006-09-22 07:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by kylierika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might love you but, he will cheat again, trust me the only thing is he will be more careful the next time
2006-09-22 07:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he loves you, then he must. If he has cheated on you, then he's just like any other male whore who craves the attention. You dont need that. Its true what they say, "once a cheater, always a cheater" Its up to you if you can live with that.
2006-09-22 07:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by She 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will do it again, and no, he does not know the meaning of love. Been there done that and let your gut guide you.
4 things: Love, respect, trust & communication.
2006-09-22 07:58:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋