we live 70 miles away from him and the only time we see or hear from him is to see if we have any money he can borrow. The man didn't even call to tell his grand daughter happy birthday.how can we tell him he needs to come around for more than just money?
2006-09-22 08:01:16 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
have a mil JUST like this, you need to be firm and say nope and if that causes him to fall away then so be it................and to explain it a little more my mil would call for the c\gas money, the electric, phone bill etc etc etc BUT guess who had several vacations per year and goes on EVERY church trip going...this woman could not even acknowledge her own son on his birthday called 5 days late and asked for money................
Cut him out your life as best as you can, he is her grand father granted BUT what does he bring to the table, he does not even bring him self so it will be of very little loss to anyone.
2006-09-22 08:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by candy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might start up with the aid of taking the fuse out of the television plug and that i in all probability would not even tell my husband, in case he felt sorry for the old devil and placed it back. That seems after the noise subject interrupting your childs bedtime. i might additionally supply mentioned husband an ultimatium, the two he talks to him and tells him to circulate out asap or your'll supply up the mattress room antics (that usually drives them mad). Threaten your husband which you will consult with him your self, which heavily isn't friendly. If that would not artwork then your'll in simple terms ought to do it and tell substantial different's father to circulate away and if that would not artwork i might flipping properly circulate out. stable luck
2016-10-15 07:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he is taking advantage of the situation,,, first of all why dont you go and ask to borrow money from him just to see if he lets you borrow like you two have done.... or just tell him that you dont have anymore money......
2006-09-22 08:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off if he didn't come around. Tell him you have no money and hit him up for some. That'll curb his asking you for your money.
2006-09-22 08:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Just don't give him money. My dad does the same thing, and I made up my mind and stopped talking to him.
2006-09-22 12:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No better way than just coming flat out and telling him point blank .
2006-09-22 08:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father-n-laws suck!!!! My husband dad is a real pain in the *&%. But I ignore him and for the most he stays away.
2006-09-22 08:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by ldydub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want someone like that around your child?
2006-09-22 08:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Just Bored!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋