Locking the door was a good thought...actually shutting it all the way would have been helpful.
My 7-yr old daughter came in my bedroom last night while my boyfriend and I were having sex. She went unnoticed until she got right to the edge of the bed. So I see her and, obviously, stop immediately. I didn't know what to say. It's never happened before - she's never seen me with a man until recently. I've kept all dates/boyfriends away from my home for 7 years. Seeing me with someone is new for her. Seeing me having sex with someone is...what?? Traumatic? Scary? I don't know. I just picked her up, took her back to bed & didn't say a word. I sat down with her on my lap & rubbed her back until she fell asleep.
She didn't say a word about it this morning before school. Should I leave it alone? Ask her if she wants to talk about what she saw? What? I'm completely freaking out over this. Pretty sure I'll be comfortable enough to have sex in my house again in say, oh I don't know, 17 years!
2006-09-22
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