how do i get over a guy who i had a bigggggg n severe crush??????????
i want 2 get over him as fast as possible
plzzzzzzzz help
since my frens r not helping me getting over him instead dey do stuff so dat i lyk him even mooooooooreeeeeee!!!!!!!!!
plzzzzzzzzzzz help
2006-09-22 07:29:52 · 6 answers · asked by aamber j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore him !!
2006-09-22 07:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need to go pee.
But seriously! I don't understand what your friends could possibly do to make you like someone even more.
Who you like & dislike is entirely under your control, you are the one with all of the power in this situation.
I also don't understand why you feel you need to purge a crush from your system.
Even if having a relationship with this guy would somehow go against your principals, you can still bear a crush for him as long as you don't act on it.
Besides there's no crime in having a crush on as many guys as you want.
I get crushes on lot's of women I meet, but I don't do anything because I am married, & in many cases so are they.
I just enjoy their company, & accept that there's nothing else I can do.
2006-09-22 07:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do it fast. You can take breaks from the pain, but you have to wade on through it like it's a lake. Eventually you might be up to your neck in it and think you're going to drown, but if you keep going you'll come out the other side.
I had to give up some of my oldest friends - they kept telling me what "she" was doing, thinking it would make me feel better, but it made me feel worse, so I quit hanging around with them. You gotta do what's better for you.
You gotta go out, meet new people, pretend you don't care, and you'll start to believe it yourself. You can do it, baby.
2006-09-22 07:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by barbertono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get outside & enjoy the fresh air. sitting at home is only going to make u more miserable. if u're friends won't support u thru this, then maybe they're not friends after all.
2006-09-22 07:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new interests and new ways ot keep your mind busy.Tiem wil heal this wound , you need a distraction so you dont think and dwell on it.
2006-09-22 07:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the only answer
2006-09-22 07:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋