The situation is like this. A guy is engaged and would be married this coming December. However, it was messed-up two weeks ago because of another girl. The girl was 4 weeks pregnant. He just met this girl while his relationship with his gf is almost two years. He really loves his gf but he’s a jerk and made this terrible mistake.
Now, my question is. Any guy out there who doesn’t do this to his gf? You know, having an affair with other girls. And justify your answer to convince me that you are.
Well if you are like this guy, here’s your question. What you should have done in order to avoid this stupid mistake.
2006-09-22 07:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by lady_mj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is getting married to her than there is no such thing as a mistake like that... he deserves to get dumped... and as for me if I cant keep my d*ck in my pants than I would not be engaged. When i find that special girl... it's only about me and her, no one else.
2006-09-22 10:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by vandetta00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know personally that this guy knows he made a terrible mistake however what lead up to him being with this other girl that is 4 weeks pregnant? Is she going through this alone? because if she is this may have lead to him being just a little to nice and the situation got out of hand. men are not all jerks. some of us out here are real good but we do make mistakes. I know the girlfreind of two years is upset and she has ever right to be but in the same since has she ever thought that he may want kids is he able to have kids and found this to be the answer? there is a lot going on right now besides the wedding nad if he isnt with her now and your trying to fix the engagment you both need to talk. if ive helped in anyway or can help let me know.
2006-09-22 14:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by thebigmantony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think some guy just have womenizing habit in their dna.
is just hard to make them stop having affair/flirt other women.
it will stop only if that guy getting old/being poorer.
since im a guy that appreciate my money, i dont like to have too much girl,since i waste a lot of money.and automatically make me unlikely to flirt with other girls.
i hope my answer answer your question.
2006-09-22 14:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't done the cheating thing in a while. I only did it when I was in my "young and dumb" days. Now I feel that any person that cheats needs to be treated with sincere disregard
2006-09-22 14:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by cuttur2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated on a gf, ever
guess I saw my mom do that to my dad and never wanted to do the same
2006-09-22 14:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
become friends with the other gurl instead of having an affair with her
tell her she was giong 2 far in our little talk we had
check her on sumthin new
2006-09-22 14:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by sam r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wore a condom. "No glove, No love".
2006-09-22 14:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋