ok well i still love my ex but he dont like me what should i do to get over this and get a new guy?
2006-09-22 07:34:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the relationship is gone. you may not be too much fun for a while. forget about guys for now. you need to fix the reasons that you lost your ex. dont' call him don't email him. completly lost the contact info. throw out everything he gave you if it has sentimental value. eventually you are gonna forget. don't get a new guy. grieve the loss of the relationship. then take some time to get in a btter place emotionally. after you have completley healed and fixed why you are no longer together, you can THEN be availible to be with another man. It helps if you are not angry at your Ex and don't slam him either because guys pick up on that. another man at this point is the LAST thing you need.
2006-09-22 07:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would get involved in some sort of extracirricular activity. They're fun, and you won't have the time to daydream about your ex, and also a great place to meet a new guy who will obviously share a common interest with you. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 14:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Awesomeness!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there really isn't much you can do, besides learn from what you had, and hold your chin up high, everything that happens was meant for a reason, and there is nothing you can do about it except to just move on and don't show him that you are hurt or upset about him and you being no more, and show him you are strong and not willing to just let him ruin what greatness everyday brings amoungst you. So hold your chin high and be strong, relationships come and go, you just have to continue looking.
2006-09-22 14:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by killermonkies2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to talk to him and see why he doesn't like you. After you find this out you should try to fix it, and if you can't then move on. If he can't except the fact that you still love him and you want to make it work, then you don't need him anymore. That means that he didn't love you from the beginning. Keep your head up and be strong. It'll work out in the end.
2006-09-22 14:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mz. Chavis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sweetie, jumping from relationship to relationship, is not the answer, give yourself sometime to heal. Not covering up the wounds by possibly infected it with another disease.
Won't you try and find yourself, find out who you are, what your likes truly are. So you will get involved with a person, and not be so involved with that person., because you have self-love. There's nothing wrong with being by yourself, you find out a lot about yourself.
"To love one 's self is the beginning of a life long romance"
2006-09-22 14:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things for yourself! Get a second job, go to school, hang out with more friends, go shopping, get a dog, etc...
The point is keep yourself busy. If you dont you'll sit around thinking about your ex.
2006-09-22 14:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not meant to be together, it simply won't happen. Let him go. If he really doesn't love you back, you deserve better. Don't punish yourself by sitting around waiting for him to change his mind cause it might never happen. Someone is out there waiting to be with someone like you. Get out there and do some things for yourself. You'll meet someone when you aren't looking for them. Good luck!
2006-09-22 14:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by ms pokeylope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What always worked for me is to think about all the bad in the relationship. That way you can dislike them and ask yourself what you ever saw in them. You don't need to find another guy right now, you need to work on you first.
2006-09-22 14:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jani S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and spend more time around family and friends who love and support you. You will see that life does go on and life's too short to waste. You will meet someone who loves and respects you and deserves your love. Good luck!
2006-09-22 14:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is not to look for a new guy. Be happy on your own and then you will attract more guys than you'll know what to do with.
2006-09-22 14:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋