Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

2006-09-21 12:13:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what is the first thing that atract you in the woman.........

2006-09-21 12:13:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I've known this man for 7 years, and for the last 8 monthes we lived together. we have been official for 6 monthes now. about a month ago we had to move out so we started looking at apartments to live in together, but he came home one day to show me his newly signed lease for HIS apartment, which has standerds like only one person may stay the night once a week. i was crushed.. I tryed to understand that he needs his space to do is school and such. also he has always gone out on thursdays i was invited once and he left me sitting alone at the bar for an hour so i got mad and now its turned into a "boys Night". he does not even want to see me on thursdays anymore. but the big thing is now that dont live with him i only see him at night, when he is done at the bar or whatever. but thats all i get a Pillow not a boy friend. if i ask to hang out during the day he says im acting needy. Am i being needy?what should i do? i love this man

2006-09-21 12:12:49 · 11 answers · asked by babyskit5683 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We havent had sex in almost a month and i keep tellin him i need sexual attention but it seems to go in one ear and out the other. I just wanna get ******.

2006-09-21 12:12:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is the deal. I have a very small family, as in two people besides me. And then under a dozen freinds. He has a very large family and weddings are a big deal. Just his mom has 5 sisters and just ONE sister will consist of 16 immediate relatives. I don't even know how we can have this wedding without his family paying for 3/4 of it. So, how do I bring this up and get them to agree in a nice way?

2006-09-21 12:12:04 · 18 answers · asked by blulillly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As I was typing my question, I noticed that most of the similiar questions were the exact same. Its notn that I have a problem with gays, its just that I what to who or what made them that way. Is it because the oppsite sex ain't treating them the way they wanna be.

So just PLEASE explain this to me.

2006-09-21 12:11:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

lat night my boyfriend for 9 months broke up with me he lives in bolingbrook and i live in chicago so u can call it a long distance relationship.. he usely messes around like breaking up but he says hes playing like 29 minutes after the fact and last night he said he didnt want a girl friend after we have been going out for 9 months and well today like at 3 pm he called and said can we be friends with priveliges i said i have to think about it... he knew i was crying like crazy today and well he finally said he was messing around and why did i take it so seriously what should i do LIKE IS HE USING ME OR DOES HE REALLY WANT ME BACK OR JUST SAYING HES PLAYING TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER

2006-09-21 12:11:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my friend's name is Kadee and I want a nickname for her. Any ideas!!!! Thanx

2006-09-21 12:10:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

pillow that I have had since I was a child? Its a sentimental thing, but she just doesn't get it.

2006-09-21 12:10:03 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like right now since i broke up i with my girlfriend for cheating on me with my best friend. i got to thinking? what if i went with her best friend, our worlds would be flipped up side down right. it wasn't a problem for her and my friend. but say i did it i would be looked at as a threat and i would be called every name in the book practically. hypothetically say i liked her best friend first but i made the mistake of choosing my ex instead of her friend. now that we have been over for a half a year. i mean we still talk but as friends. however her friend and my feelings are mutual. but she don't want to there friendship and she tells me its confusing. her mom, my other friends, her brother, and grandparents approved. honestly all i can say is i am a one woman man and don't like playing games. this doesn't mean a B**** though. all answers are welcome don't afraid to express how you feel. Because you might been through this or it can be a future tool. let me know?

2006-09-21 12:09:48 · 1 answers · asked by wanbli 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been a month and I am already a very sexual latina so it's killin me but I love him and I dont wanna cheat I just need to get ******!

2006-09-21 12:09:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well he looks at me and has been for like the past week and finally he flirted with me for the first time.... does he like me what should i do?

2006-09-21 12:09:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I likes Birthday is coming up and I wanted to get him a gift what should I get for him? Something that is cute.

2006-09-21 12:08:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i work in the same building,he gets aff at 3 pm , i get off at 330 pm ,he goes to visit a female worker in the same building but different area while he waits for me, i ask him about it he say no.then i ask were are you going he says to meet his friend and talk about work and that she leaves late everyday also when i see this female she doesnt speak to me ,knows im his wife and if she see us together she only speaks to him,he says she doesnt have to speak to me, i feel that its disrepectful that she doest speak out of common courstey and he shouldnt allow it to happen.

2006-09-21 12:08:07 · 24 answers · asked by butterbean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

with " I dont know ", are they paranoid and think we can see them on their little keyboards or is it 2 points that make their day?If you dont know the answer dont push that frikking button, unless you have a answer or something funny to add.Am I wrong here?

2006-09-21 12:07:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that her baby and herself is his favorite two girls? She CLAIMS she never saw him before, just spoke to him over the internet. But when i send him a e-mail telling him basically to stop talking to my girl, she goes behind my back to APOLOGIZE to him because she says i acted like a little kid. What do you think?

2006-09-21 12:07:32 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

rub your back in bed, or hold your hand or give you a full body massage that included extras? Would you allow this to happen if you were supposed to be working things out with your ex who cheated on you and moved several hours away? Or would you consider this some sort of sign that perhaps you really WERE into the person you were allowing to do this to you.........and maybe you do feel something for them. And that the deal with the ex (cheater liar sponge for money) was just something you felt you had to do--an obligation of sorts.

2006-09-21 12:07:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you give me variety i will consider choosing your answer as the best. Just depends. Thanks

2006-09-21 12:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by Cc 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i liked and i found out he is gay but the problem is we just got married what do i do and don't say follow your heart if that is what i needed to do then i would of had sex with him all redy should i have sex with him

2006-09-21 12:06:18 · 17 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Weddings

im just asking the advice is not for me okay!!!!

2006-09-21 12:06:03 · 2 answers · asked by ariana 1 in Singles & Dating

i am renewing my vows in october and have made all the decorations and bought the outfits,planned food, etc and i cant get my husband to help or my maid of honor. i just feel that is the reason for having a maid of honor is to help the bride with things so she is not stressed out the whole time... am i wrong for this thinking and what should i do?

2006-09-21 12:05:25 · 21 answers · asked by atthean 2 in Weddings

I'm in college and he has a steady job in a town 30 minutes away from me.

2006-09-21 12:04:15 · 39 answers · asked by Angie M 2 in Singles & Dating

just wanted to know. :)

2006-09-21 12:04:13 · 15 answers · asked by i-dunno-someguy 1 in Friends

i want to do this so bad?
i want to run for homecoming queen so bad. i'm not popular. I know my friends won't believe in me. They are already skeptical & think i can't win. How can I win? Help. they will laugh at me or tell me "i told you so" if i lose.

2006-09-21 12:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother has called me names all my life, said she should have put me in a bucket at birth!! She has hit me, hard physically, left me out on the step all night, freezing, but would not let me sleep when i got access to the house, she made me clean the house, while she drank whisky. She called me "that bastard"" and took all my money off me to spend on her extra marital. she forced me to have an abortion, then called me a murderer in front of a pub full of people, she woke me up at 4am screaming at me, you lazy *****!! do your laundry, and threw it in my face, when i had work at 7am, tip of the iceberg this, and she still thinks i will have her in my life, now i have a wonderful family who adore me, i told her to **** off tonight, but i am so fucked up here, is it normal to feel bad, even though she has abused me so much?

2006-09-21 12:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 12:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa T 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do. Theres this girl i asked to homecoming and she said yeah then after that she says no in a text.
"No i'm sorry. chris, ur poem was sweet and so are u, but i don't think i'm the right girl for u. i'm so sorry but ur still a hottie." I don't want to lose this girl. she's liked me for a while and i've liked her but now it just messed up.

2006-09-21 12:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m so nervous, for I don’t know what’s going to happen…. We broke up almost a year ago and tried to get back together in May. It was total disaster; we ended up really badly. Even though I still love him very much, I know that we can’t be together, it just would not work out; too many awful things have happened between us, mainly because of his lack of character. We haven’t spoken since May, and our last conversation was awful, the type where you just spit your guts out; that was mainly me though. Anyhow, he keeps driving around my house and I have seen him a couple of times although I don’t think he has been able to see me. The other night, my 11-year-old son, went outside and saw him, it freaked my son out; he doesn’t understand why my ex-bf would do such thing. I don’t’ want to talk to my ex-bf so, I sent him a certified letter asking him to stop, and in a very civil way letting him know that if he doesn’t stop I will report him to the authorities. I really don’t want to do that, but he leaves me no other choice, or does he. Am I overreacting? What do you think he is going to do? Do you think I did wrong by sending him a letter? I feel like if I was in High School all over again. I’m a grown up woman with children and can’t believe this is happening to me.

2006-09-21 12:02:47 · 4 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you write a love letter to somebody you have a crush on? What do you say!?? Im like completely lost...

2006-09-21 12:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 12:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings