rub your back in bed, or hold your hand or give you a full body massage that included extras? Would you allow this to happen if you were supposed to be working things out with your ex who cheated on you and moved several hours away? Or would you consider this some sort of sign that perhaps you really WERE into the person you were allowing to do this to you.........and maybe you do feel something for them. And that the deal with the ex (cheater liar sponge for money) was just something you felt you had to do--an obligation of sorts.
2006-09-21 12:07:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I should clarify that I am the person GIVING the back rubs and the massages! I guess I was asking this question from a confusing persepctive..........
2006-09-21 12:15:32 · update #1
Ok after reading some responses....maybe I did ask this in the right format. I was trying to get into someones head and it appears you are revealing that to me.......keep posting!
2006-09-21 12:17:16 · update #2
I am not sure I would be trying to fix the whole ex factor,, if he was a liar, cheater, and everything else,, and if you felt comfortable enough with this "other" person,, then follow your heart,,, it might lead you somewhere amazing
2006-09-21 12:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get back with someone who cheated? Especially when they now live far away? Deal breaker. Forget the loser. It's hard to get over feelings, but he ruined his chance with you.
Also, you know when you're attracted to someone. You don't have to ask. Don't let things go too far (like full body massages and being in bed???) with someone just because you are lonely and want to get over your ex.
Take some time alone and move on before you date again. You don't sound ready to me.
2006-09-21 19:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey....I am too good to give myself to someone I am not attracted to just to get back at a cheating ex. The ex cheated on you and you should move on.......to someone amazing!
2006-09-21 19:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes several hours away I would enjoy myself and have fun
2006-09-21 19:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you showed your t*ts to someone you are not attracted to?
2006-09-21 19:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋