Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

In regards to the extra payments I make they are via my online account so totally traceable.We were not married but together for a very long time we also have another child at uni and she bleeds me dry but that is life.Also the csa told me any overtime I do at work will deducted as well even though I have to do it to survive. with the new version of the csa coming about can I get this situation sorted? I currently work 60 to 70 hours per week and on the verge of a nervous breakdown.Also the ex refuses to work full time even though our youngest is a teen.

2006-09-21 11:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by HIMSELF 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl. she has this brother who likes me. (i think) she always looks at me like she knows something i don't know, she isn't mean though. she talks to me sometimes.

do u think her brother told her that he likes me?

2006-09-21 11:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by MissMissy13 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you just want to get into her pants, how many dates does it take to know she's not going to put out?

2006-09-21 11:46:39 · 17 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 11:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by erica thomas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 19 yrs old and i've been talkin to this guy (he's 19 also) over the internet for 3 years next month. We wanna meet next summer for the 4th try. Everytime we try something happens and the ticket is wasted. We were talkin last night and he wants me come alone to the airport but one of my friends said i should let my parents go. Should we try to meet and keep trying? Do you think it would work out? Should i go alone or bring a friend or parent w/ me?

2006-09-21 11:46:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since a lot of girls are awnsering my other q and being really nice im going to ask this.... my bf who im totally mad about is acting wierd. the 1st while we were together it was great we would have a laugh hed hold my hand and kiss me really passionately. but lately he has told me that he wants to move back to his home country and now he pulls away when i hold his hand, and when he kisses me it feels like its a chore. he is cheerfull around his friends but miserable and quiet around me and always has a good exuse not to be with me for too long. has he lost intrest? do i make him sad bcuz he will miss me? does he want to break up but cant bring himself to do it?is he afraid i will forget him when he leaves?whats wrong and what do i do? honest awnsers pls need help

2006-09-21 11:46:17 · 2 answers · asked by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy, and i know he used to like me cuz all his friends told me so, and i didnt like him then. now i like him, i kinda thought he would still like me because he still acts the same way, and it is different than when he didnt like me. but i called him cuz i wanted to ask him out, but i wanted to make sure he still liked me, so i asked but not like starught forward, and he said he only likes me as a friend. so when he asked what i wanted i just said never mind cuz i didnt want to make a fool of myself, cuz he is not really in the "in crowd" at school. now i think it is going to be really awkward between us because i am in all his classes, and we are friends...what should i do?

2006-09-21 11:46:16 · 5 answers · asked by PEzzCandy 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends parents do not like me and her going out due to religious reasons. they took alot of freedom away from her and this led her to make the desicion that we should break up.we have been going out for almost a year now even though we are only 15 we love each other very much.i want to wait for her but she doesn't want me to as she doesn't think i can stay faithfull 2 her for about a year or something.i nearly asked another girl out but i didn't in the end but my friend told her that i nearly asked a girl out.this made her think even more that i couldn't remain faithfull 2 her. what should i do??????????? i reaaaaalllllyyy love her. but im not exactly sure she loves me 2

2006-09-21 11:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if i like this guy but he goes to completely different school and i don't know how to tell him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????????????????????

2006-09-21 11:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by big brat 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband decided he wanted to chase more tail as soon as his boots hit Iraq. Yes,it was Via Internet...Ex: Asking girls for pictures..sexy letters,you get the idea. Even talking to an old GF!! Anyhow,we were just married in July,and he is already doing this crap? I don't think so!! I have been home waiting,worried,loyal,all year long with all the chances to meet people but I don't care a thing about it. We said our vows and ,I meant my vows. He broke my heart,and crushed his 3 little stepdaughters as well. I have proof he was doing this stuff,and I want out before it is to late. We were together a long time,but I just found this stuff out. Can I file for a divorce even though he is in Iraq? If not,how long do you think it will be? Thank you!

2006-09-21 11:43:45 · 22 answers · asked by Holly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Which body type in a girl do you look for.?

2006-09-21 11:43:41 · 15 answers · asked by sabrina 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year everyone hated me and I still have scars due to the repetitive, severe and occasionally hospital requiring physical trama i endured because of my sexual orientation. Now these girls, who last year ignored me, are being really nice to me and telling me they think I'm really nice. Should I be suspicious of their motives?

2006-09-21 11:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife and I met at a bible camp in high school. We got married shortly after college. The problem is, she thinks I'm a sex addict. We were both celibate before we got married and agreed that our first night was "worth waiting" for. Is ONCE A WEEK too much? How often do normal, healthy couples have intercourse? I'm afraid I'm not making her happy and I'm getting quite self conscious about it.

2006-09-21 11:42:22 · 21 answers · asked by Brian M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im been dating this guy and he loves me and i love him but when do i know when its the time to kiss him like how is the moment gonna happen and how do i know hes the one im gonna give my first kiss to?

2006-09-21 11:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by cierraslove 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 11:42:03 · 5 answers · asked by Enemy Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 11:40:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 11:40:15 · 41 answers · asked by Angelina 4 in Weddings

2006-09-21 11:40:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so grateful to all your support out there, i am so fucked up over this, i have told them to **** off in a moment of despair, they have tried to contact me, i put the phone down, where do i get the strength to keep it up, for my family`s sake, i am brainwashed to being weak, i need to break the pattern for me, and my family, please help me here, do i just ignore them now, i want to, how do i get the strength to do it? My brother cast them off years ago, but they go on at me about it, they are making my life a misery.

2006-09-21 11:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Joint Stipulation.. is this the same thing (custody matters) as "Resident Custody"?

2006-09-21 11:38:08 · 3 answers · asked by coping/ letting go 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

break us up once already, shes gotten him into trouble and says the only way shell get him out of it is if he tells me that they are getting married and to leave him alone. he told her no f%@$%ing way but still hangs out w/her. i caught them at our buddies house today infact and she was acting like she was going to do something to me so i told her to bring it. (by the way shes so ugly u would chew ur own arm off to get away from her) no joke. do i keep believing him that nothing has ever happened between them or should i just say forget it? i really love him and he says he loves me, but then y hang w/someone like that? what should i do? i feel trapped pls. help i need advice!

2006-09-21 11:38:00 · 15 answers · asked by CHERRYSCION 3 in Singles & Dating

Please answer soon as we are running low on banannas.....

2006-09-21 11:37:36 · 15 answers · asked by Static__Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone knows about a free myspace friend adder

2006-09-21 11:37:11 · 3 answers · asked by ;-D 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy from my soccer team. so does the other two girls.
and i'm trying to not like him but i cant. i cant stop thinking about him .what should i do?

he is denfinitly my type. but i dont know if he likes me or the other girls. when he comes and talk to me i get nervous .what should i do to not embaress myself in front of him? how do u make a guy like you?

2006-09-21 11:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by chrisbrownbabygurl 1 in Friends

2006-09-21 11:36:27 · 14 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5 in Singles & Dating

Another question for my cousin.... she dont know what to do!?!?!?!?!

2006-09-21 11:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..in the middle of class. Why would we care?

2006-09-21 11:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by annabanana 1 in Friends

i've got a mate, Random, who only fancy's women who are the "man" in a lesbian relationship. what does it mean? is he gay?

2006-09-21 11:35:37 · 14 answers · asked by drdreallday 3 in Friends

2006-09-21 11:35:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what caN i DO IF I AM SCARED OF THIS GIRL AND SHE IS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK AND S H E IS ALWAYS ACTING FAKE IN MY FACE.I AM ONLY 10 IN THE 5TH GRADE. PLEASE HELP ME.

2006-09-21 11:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends