break us up once already, shes gotten him into trouble and says the only way shell get him out of it is if he tells me that they are getting married and to leave him alone. he told her no f%@$%ing way but still hangs out w/her. i caught them at our buddies house today infact and she was acting like she was going to do something to me so i told her to bring it. (by the way shes so ugly u would chew ur own arm off to get away from her) no joke. do i keep believing him that nothing has ever happened between them or should i just say forget it? i really love him and he says he loves me, but then y hang w/someone like that? what should i do? i feel trapped pls. help i need advice!
2006-09-21 11:38:00 · 15 answers · asked by CHERRYSCION 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now rememebr you asked for opinions and you're sure to hear lots that you wont like at all.
i, personally would give him the ultimatum... now i don't make a practice of this myself... but from what you are saying... this is a good time to.
put it out there: me or her.
period.
give him about a week to think on it and demand an answer from him.
if he chooses her "friendship" over the "love" you 2 share.. the you really made the right decision, didn't you?
if he should choose you, then he must cut ALL TIES that means no phone calls, if she is where y'all go... then go somewhere else.. no words to be said.
make yourself happy because NO ONE else can do it for you.
take care of you.
best wishes,
~mouse
2006-09-21 11:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all calm down! Take a deep breath you can't start accusing him of doing stuff with a friend if you haven't caught him yet. Now before you go and ruin your relationship consider this, maybe the reason she is trying to keep him away from you is the same reason your trying to keep him away from her. She may just think you not good enough for him. You can't ask him to totally give up this friend, for friendship very often will outlast any other type of relationship save marriage. I think she is being a little extreme, but you must consider where she may be coming from. Your infringing on her territory, on their friendship. So yes you can ask him to spend less time with her, you can ask him not to hangout with her when your around, but you can not ask him by any means to totally sever all ties of friendship with this girl. Now go and talk with him tell him about what you don't like and try to work it out with him.
2006-09-21 18:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Channing W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY mate from one man to another shes playing been there tasted the peach and no now have two beautifull babies that i no longer see with pain and hatered memories at the end of the day we all have paths to follow but a little guidence helps if u love this girl who has put this shes not worth putting to the kerb!! belive me!!. baby thats to him in ur heart if all ive said is either right or wrong **** it listen i have regreats for the pain caused and my ex knew wot would happen and belive me when i say im not that type yes i play but damn if his not listening to wot ur say BA see ya later it will hurt but if cheats on u wot then take him back??choose ur path.
2006-09-21 18:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by mac3111976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, the saying goes, a guy can't be friends with a girl without them wanting to get into her pants. Sounds like they are doing something else then being friends..Watch your back and find someone else. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 18:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by artqueen5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something.. similar happened to me. He was two timing me -_-. The ***. OH but then I forgived him and we got engaged. And then I found out he was cheating on me again.... Isn't it awsome? Honestly, do what you REALLY think is right. Personally I think that if you mistrust him like that and you're not doing anything drastic to stop it you might b able to get away from him. Think: Is she the evil one or is he?
2006-09-21 18:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Life is short: Enjoy it!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to your bf and tell him how you feel. Tell him that what she's doing and work it out with him. He's with you not her . So tell him that you want him to still hang out with his friends . But not her. I hope everything works out for you.
2006-09-21 18:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no honey ...if she is acting like it and he is hangin out with him then it prolly means something has happened between them at one point or another..if he wont cut the nasty scag loose for u then there is a reason..either he is doing her or he is gettin high with her. so tell him either he cuts her loose or u gotta go..
2006-09-21 18:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cared for you, HE would do something about it. Just keep a friendly relationship with him or just forget about it.
2006-09-21 18:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this has been going on for two years it's not likely going to change.she sounds like she's jealous of you.you have to decide if you love him enough to be with him. ignore her.tell her she is not worth your time.
2006-09-21 18:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be ****-buddies. If you have a bad feeling about her, you are probably right.
2006-09-21 18:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋