2006-09-21 11:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by erica thomas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think of how much more it will hurt the deeper into the relationship you both get. Being honest with him and yourself is part of doing the right thing in a relationship. Doing the right thing doesnt' always feel good.
2006-09-21 11:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but there's no easy way out of this one. You need to just talk to him and let him know how you feel. I stood in a relationship for a long time, b/c I didnt want to hurt my g/f. I ended up miserable and full of resentment. Don't do that to yourself. Strong people hurt others sometimes... Be strong.
2006-09-21 11:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by chillwill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always going to hurt unless it's a mutual descision. Do it quick before it gets worse and you talk yourself out of it. It may hurt but if you give time for both to grieve then get over it you two will be much better off... Just be brief and honest. if you go to long about it it makes it more awkward.
2006-09-21 11:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by prometida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him privately. Tell him in a kind way. If you can't think of a specific reason to give; just say I'm sorry, but this doesn't seem to be working out.
Now, leave him alone and don't change your mind.
2006-09-21 11:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him in person it makes you look like less of a coward. just make sure when you do this that your in a public area, not alone incase he can't take the truth and starts to get frantic. so you can run for you life and never deal with him again.
2006-09-21 12:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him, the longer you leave it the more hurt he will be, everyone has to come to terms with this sort of thing sometime in their life, and we all get over it more quickly that we think
2006-09-21 11:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by jeff1961uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It private since doing so in public would add embarrassment to injury. Gently, honestly and quickly as well.
2006-09-21 11:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by jeffrcal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're hurting him more by staying with him and not being honest. You just straight up have to tell him you dont want to see him anymore.
2006-09-21 11:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is face to face but the easiest way is email! The cheesiest way is text
2006-09-21 11:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋