Im 19 yrs old and i've been talkin to this guy (he's 19 also) over the internet for 3 years next month. We wanna meet next summer for the 4th try. Everytime we try something happens and the ticket is wasted. We were talkin last night and he wants me come alone to the airport but one of my friends said i should let my parents go. Should we try to meet and keep trying? Do you think it would work out? Should i go alone or bring a friend or parent w/ me?
2006-09-21 11:46:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would definately take someone with me. that could be dangerous if u didnt. i know of someone that finally met someone she talked to online and they met alone and he kidnapped her and raped her.
2006-09-21 11:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very weird that you have been in contact now for 3 years over the internet and now he wants to meet you alone. Do you only know this guy over the internet though emails and that is it? Do not go alone. You need to bring a friend or parent with you. Also, remember, just because you think you know him, if you have only been in contact through the internet, you don't really know him. If you are interested in him for a long distance relationship as a boyfriend, these relationships rarely work out.
2006-09-21 18:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you clarify what you mean by something comes up? Out of context, that sounds a bit sketchy. I'm not saying there haven't been legitimate reasons but what's been coming up and for who?
Are you sure he's 19? Have you exchanged pictures, that he didn't pull off the internet?
Why does he want you to come alone? I know it's hard to meet the parents for the first time, but he should be understanding of what a big deal it is for your parents to entrust their daughter to someone they've, and she's, never met.
2006-09-21 18:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring someone with u u know how dangerous it is now these days..bring a friend and if he said alone tell ur friend to go hide somewhere but ur friend should be able to see u and if something goes wrong u'll friend will be there to help u..dont take the risk of going alone.
2006-09-21 18:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by aneela n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a friend, have them take their own car, and stand away from you. That way you are " alone" but not alone. This way if anything happens you have someone to help you, and if you're ok, then make up a signal to motion to your friend so you guys can go your seperate ways! Have fun!
2006-09-21 18:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GO ALONE!! Regardless if you think you know this guy, anyone can pretend to be anyone on the internet..he could actually be 50 years old with kids older than you and he preys on young girls...please take someone with you!! good luck!
2006-09-21 18:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by spaceyinla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying and bring a friend or parent! you never no what might happen when you two are alone in the comfort of one place!
2006-09-21 18:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're of legal age, so its fine. Bring a couple of friends with you to be safe---dont go alone, just in case. Hope it works out.
2006-09-21 18:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.
your old enough to go by yourself.
but if i were you i would be sorta scared to meet him alone.
lol.
so i would take someone with me.
i wouldnt take my mom or dad.
but
one of your friends should be fine.
and
if you feel like you need someone beside your friend take 2 friends.
lol.
the more you have doesnt hurt.
it just makes it better for you.
just in case.
:)
2006-09-21 19:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER go to meet someone for the first time alone - take someone with you.
Please take care of yourself!
2006-09-21 18:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋