Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

OK I am a junior in high school i have liked this girl since bout the middle of soph year. I spent most of the year becomin good friends with her and over the summer i told her how i felt. Now she doesnt like me but we are like best friends the only problem is wenever i see her i kinda get depressed b/c i wish i had a chance and wen im not with her she is all i think bout basically. Any suggestions

2006-09-20 14:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i'm in 9th grade and this guy I think i'm in love with is in 12th grade and he's one of my brothers friends.Well one day at school in the morning I passed him a letter saying call me if you like me and my cell number was on it. Well that morning he wrote me back saying I think your cute but i'll be 18 this November and that wouldn't be good,and then he said he'll think about it (about dating me)plus he gave me his cell number and home phone number.So I told him that i'd be 15 in Oct. so we'd only be 3 years apart and he said ok. Well we kept passing letters saying how our day was going and stuff. Well one Friday night he told my brother at the football game that he thinks it's wierd talking to someone thats younger than his sister (shes in 11th),and that he told me that he did something illegal just so that i'd stop liking him.a couple days later I asked him at school if that was true and he said no.We havn't talked.I asked this dude to talk to him about me and he said i was cute.

2006-09-20 14:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica G 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean?

2006-09-20 14:43:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got a truck, license, gas, insurance, and in two days I'll have a pocket full of cash. Oh the possibilities. . . .

2006-09-20 14:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

everyday i walk down the aisle at lunch, some people stare at me, then i know they laugh at me afterwardsor talk about me. why do they stare? is it like jealoust=y or sumthin? it's soooooo scary! it lowers my self esteem all the time! how do i ignore it? even though its hard? btw im so not ugly if i do say so myself.

2006-09-20 14:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4 in Friends

2006-09-20 14:39:08 · 9 answers · asked by wendull25 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My married neighbours wants to have an affair purely for physical satisfaction. Is it inevitable that this can only turn out disasterous (sp?)

2006-09-20 14:39:04 · 19 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Marriage & Divorce

that mean exactly? she hung up before i could ask so i could help

2006-09-20 14:39:04 · 3 answers · asked by boo 1 in Friends

2006-09-20 14:38:58 · 23 answers · asked by anand s 1 in Family

ok heres the thing me and one of my friends have been friends for three years and yesterday she told me that she wants me to leave her alone i think partally that its because of her boyfriend whos my EX and i think hes telling her to do this wat should i do.plz answer this seriously.

2006-09-20 14:38:30 · 15 answers · asked by superklutsonaskateboard 2 in Friends

Why can't I make friends?

2006-09-20 14:37:39 · 15 answers · asked by nik 2 in Friends

I just broke up with my boyfriend, two weeks ago. And he wants us to be friends. I t hought I could do it but, the way he's acting I realize that he doesn't want to talk about our recent brakeup. he says he really cant see himself going back together if we talk our recent breakup. I want to talk about what I'm feeling and If I cant talk about what I'm feeling then, I dont think I can be his friend. What do you think I should do?

2006-09-20 14:36:21 · 13 answers · asked by Candiese 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 14:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by michellet002000 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so when its someone's birthday in my school people make tee shirts and wear them that say happy birthday whoever.. well tomorrow is my friend krunal's birthday and i already made him a cake for tomorrow... then on aim he asked me to wear a shirt then went away, but tomorrow i have to play for band at the hoffman football game so i was gonna wear my hoffman shirt... and i want to wear the hoffman shirt and not a birthday shirt... i already have been wear alot of b-days shirts for ppl and decieded to cut back... and he is a really good friend of mine... and if i want to wear a shirt for him that mean i have to take the shirt i use for b-days and bleech it and wash it... so what should i tell him cause i really really don't want to wear a shirt...

2006-09-20 14:35:06 · 16 answers · asked by iloveyou 1 in Friends

2006-09-20 14:35:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-09-20 14:34:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont get it. does he like me?

2006-09-20 14:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by So Wrong, It's Jessica™ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 14:32:57 · 14 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been talking for about 2 yrs. online. She is disabled and all she does all day everyday is sit in front of the computer and chat. Here's her main topics of discussion: complaining about everything (usually family members, her back hurting, etc.); this band we both like; complaining; and the band. Oh, and did I mention the band? Yes, she's a bit obsessed. And when I try to change the subject, she goes right back to them. I want to keep her company because sometimes I feel sorry for her sitting at home alone all day, but it's hard when she says nothing positive, except when it's about the band. HELP!??!

2006-09-20 14:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5 in Friends

he usually get mad when i wear something sexy.

2006-09-20 14:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by baby kulit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

heres the deal, i have a friend at school, his name is Tanner. he is gay, im not, but i still like him as a close friend. not like him as a BF just a close friend. but when my mom saw him she freaked out, and started makin fun of him! i dont like it, but i told her to stop and she just said well hes gay! i know that! how do i tell her i still wanna be his friend, i dont give a crap if hes gay! i like him, and hes nice! help me someone!

2006-09-20 14:31:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke up with the love of my life 2 days ago but I always have the urge to call him. So I do. Hed pick up the phone and say "hello" twice because I would say anythihng (I blocked my number) and then hang up. I did that twice just to hear him. since, I will never see him again. he lives on the other side of the country. Is that weird? Have you done that before? Why do I do that?

2006-09-20 14:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked out this guy and he wasn't sure he could make the date because of car trouble. The next monday he told me he was sorry he couldn't make it and then asked me out on a second date. I gave him my phone number and told him to call me.
For the past 2 days he didn't talk to me or smile or anything. which is different because he'd smile every single time I saw him

after lunch when I saw him and asked him why he didn't call. He told me he was sorry and he already had a date to homecoming, which is weird because i never asked him to homecoming, but that question would have come up soon.

So what's the deal?

In the way beginning before we ever even met he'd be looking at me and flirt and he was the first one to talk to me. And now that he would have had the chance to get to know me, he totally blows me off and goes with another girl.

My question is, is there something wrong with me or is he just stupid like every other guy on this planet?

2006-09-20 14:30:51 · 21 answers · asked by <3 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 14:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ever been suckerpunched in the gut ,totally unexpected? by whom and why and did it knock the wind outta you

2006-09-20 14:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know why i get embarrassed so easily like today my boyfriend was commenting on my kissing and he was like "god, at the movies i thought you were gonna take my tongue ring." and then one time he said i was annoying. well indirectly....and i just shut down. should i just shrug it off? idk i get so frustrated......i cant even talk to him ne more. lol. what do i need to do!?!!?

2006-09-20 14:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by groundhog 2 in Singles & Dating

...*if you have slighted or offended someone.....

What should you do if your apology backfires, and the person becomes angry?

2006-09-20 14:28:59 · 17 answers · asked by (◕‿◕✿) 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

im wondering guys will tell their other guy friends who they like or is it just a girl thing

2006-09-20 14:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Meow~ 4 in Singles & Dating

What a minute, I am trying to be polite as I can BUT neather do I want to be cut off for two weeks! So I impolre you to help me get the 11,000 pluss points on yahoo answers. TWO WEEKS IS TOO LONG, SHE'S serious! I should have known that there was a reason she has been all over me for a few weeks,
***********come on, help a guy out!

2006-09-20 14:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by doy_hal 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't actually have kids (you can thank me later).

These should be done around age five or six, when the child is old enough to be attached, but young enough that they're still being formed as a person.

1. Send the kid's other parent on vacation for six months. Tell the child that the parent is dead and they'll never see him/her again. Once the kid has resumed smiling, bring the other parent back. Do it again with the other parent, but this time you'll have to be more convincing. Make them look covered in blood and give them drugs to temporarily slow down their pulse and lower their body temperature.

2. Give away the dog. Then serve roast beef for dinner and tell the kid that you killed the dog and are serving it for dinner. Make him/her eat every last bite. Repeat if necessary.

2006-09-20 14:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by I Know Nuttin 5 in Family