OK I am a junior in high school i have liked this girl since bout the middle of soph year. I spent most of the year becomin good friends with her and over the summer i told her how i felt. Now she doesnt like me but we are like best friends the only problem is wenever i see her i kinda get depressed b/c i wish i had a chance and wen im not with her she is all i think bout basically. Any suggestions
2006-09-20 14:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no this isnt my first crush however this is the strongest ive ever felt bout someone b4 usually i do get over them for some reason this one is diff
2006-09-20 14:53:53 · update #1
I was like this with one guy. His name was Adam. I really liked him, like a lot. You don't even know how much! So anyways whenever I saw him I got this really weird feeling in my stomach. I finally told my friend and she asked him for me. Never get your friends involved. He then told me he just wanted to be friends. So I was fine with that for like a day. Then I noticed that I still liked him. I din't know what to do. I really liked him and get this. I barely knew him. Anyways I told my friend to tell him that I still like him because I was way to nervous. At least your friend was way nicer because this guy told me to f*** a horse. Yeah. I was pretty mad. But I still liked him, and I knew I had to let go! But now I found out that he is a jerk and an a**. I hope this helps!
2006-09-20 14:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if there is any chance you can be with her. She knows you on a friend level. Ask her on a few dates, but tell her there is no obligation, you just want a chance to show you what a great guy you are. If that doesn't work, take whatever time you need and get over her. Love can hurt, but don't let it get you too down, man. Good luck bro.
2006-09-20 21:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by fret_guy89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That was the same problem i had. It's not the end of the world. Just get over it and find another girl. If you like her so much then just she if you can make her like you like play sports or be in a band. Girls dig guys who play sports and are in a band. If you play the guitar you can write a song for her and play it for her on her birthday or something.
2006-09-20 21:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go, I now it is hard even I know cause I went through that, U have to try to get over it little by little.
2006-09-20 21:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmien D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she your first crush ever? As hard as it seems, you have to try and give up on her and try focusing on something else to get her off your mind. Its hard but that's life.
2006-09-20 21:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by stemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly get over her if she doesn;t havve respect for your feelings then don;t waste your heart w/her
2006-09-20 21:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go there is plenty more girls in the world
2006-09-20 21:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by cterp123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it.
2006-09-20 21:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lead, not Follow. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋