ok heres the thing me and one of my friends have been friends for three years and yesterday she told me that she wants me to leave her alone i think partally that its because of her boyfriend whos my EX and i think hes telling her to do this wat should i do.plz answer this seriously.
2006-09-20 14:38:30 · 15 answers · asked by superklutsonaskateboard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It means leave her alone, really I do not think it leaves anything else. No lines to read between here. She wants to be left alone and what else can I say. You maybe willl want to talk to her about it and see what she says. I do agree it is most likely because of your ex. That is life, you lose friends because of bf/gf's. You are going to have to get over it and move on.
2006-09-20 14:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years is a long time - you must have gotten pretty close, and so it must really hurt that she told you to leave her alone. Noone but her can really tell you exactly what's going on, and until she chooses to do that, you don't have any choice but to leave her be. HOWEVER, she has been your friend for 3 years, you have every right to say to her "Listen, I'm really bummed you are shutting me out because I really value your friendship, but if that's what you want, I'll leave you alone, and just know that, as your friend, I'll be here if you want to talk" If she's your friend, after a bit of space, she'll come talk to you. If she doesn't come back, then at least one of you has handled the situation in a mature and caring way - YOU!!
2006-09-20 14:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be.If the boyfriend thing doesn't work out,she'll come back.Look, she's chosen this guy over you.She values this relationship more than the three year investment you guys have in your friendship,do the math.Let her go.If thats the choice she's made , well maybe she wasn't as good a friend as you thought she was.
2006-09-20 14:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly the reason she told you that. Just dump her and watch her come back when she has bf problems. Cut your losses you don't need either of them. There are always other truer friends to be made. Be glad you didn't waste another minute on them much less a year.
2006-09-20 14:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...she's not much of a friend is she?
If the ex boyfriend is telling her to stay away from you then he's not much of a man either. He's probably afraid that you will be telling her what a jerk he really is.
2006-09-20 14:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by sent_from_heaven2me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is telling you that she is not a friend at all. Just leave her alone.
2006-09-20 14:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont talk 2 her then get some friends tat really wanna be friends wit u u shud trust me
2006-09-20 14:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to leave her alone, if she listening to her bf then she is not worth having her as a friend
2006-09-20 14:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just listenin to him. maybe shes guilty for takin ur ex, even though thts a no-no for best friends! shes being a b itch
2006-09-20 14:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by HappyState™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she telling u that that mean that they don't want to be ur friend again and that sentence is bad & hurt , leave them and don't talk to them again*
2006-09-20 18:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋