everyday i walk down the aisle at lunch, some people stare at me, then i know they laugh at me afterwardsor talk about me. why do they stare? is it like jealoust=y or sumthin? it's soooooo scary! it lowers my self esteem all the time! how do i ignore it? even though its hard? btw im so not ugly if i do say so myself.
2006-09-20 14:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
jobie if u had nuthin good to say maybe u should just GO AWAY! no one asked u to be here
2006-09-20 14:49:07 · update #1
You know the way that some people deal with this is to say just deal with it. I have to disagree I have kids in school also and they have to deal with it everyday. I have told my kids to just ignore them if you let them know that it bothers you then they will never stop. Just focus all of your attention on what you need to like the friends that you do have and the class work that you need to get done. I think that the reason why people do this is because you let them do it (not saying anything bad about you) it's just that you let it bother you when it happens. Don't worry about what everyone else says about you worry about how you feel about yourself and it will all work out on it's own.
2006-09-20 14:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied a lot in High School
I was very shy because of it and I tried to be invisible, until I realised that I wasn't doing anything for myself or for my future.
Now I walk tall, head held up with a confident strind. I don't care if people stare or laugh, I feel good about myself. Plus I have attracted a lot of attention from ladies as well.
It's all about you, not what other's think
2006-09-20 21:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably think u r perfect. And being not so perfect themselves they are jealous of u. So from now on do a great show of walking down the aisle. Give them good reason to be jealous.
2006-09-20 21:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is walk down a different isle. You cannot change people who wish to be jerks.
Keep your head high and ignore them.
2006-09-20 21:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can be scray, but you have to remember that some people dont have anything elce better to do, they have to pick on people, so they feel happy with themself, i dont get it myself, but never show them that you are worried, or the will take the power you have left and use it on you, i hope you understand, i would turn around and tell them all to grow up. or get some friends to do the same to them, and see if they like it.
2006-09-20 21:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they like you? you don't know. if you wanna find out if theyre bullying you, ask 'em.
say....."Hey, you guys like me or something?"
Then if they laugh at you more than say......"I'm glad i spread happiness......"
OR you can just go a different aisle or something.....
I bet there are many paths to get to your lunch table.
2006-09-20 21:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre just jerks if ppl do that there just trying to make you feel small so they can feel big but honestly dont let it bother you like i said there just jerks
2006-09-20 21:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by superklutsonaskateboard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ignore bullying, trust me, I know, people bully me because I am smart. but email me if you want to chat
supernerd_2themax@yahoo.com
2006-09-20 21:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by supernerd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to look funny just sonic.
2006-09-20 21:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you are just being paranoid??
2006-09-20 21:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by jobie023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋